How did you get your ex boyfriend back?

if he broke up with you.


whats your story?





how did you get him to like you again?





=)How did you get your ex boyfriend back?
Me and my boyfriend split up for 6 months. We both started seein other ppl, even though we were both stil in love with each other but were never out of contact for more than a day. I told him that it couldn't continue and that it wasn't fair on anyone involved. We stopped contact........for 6 days. I then recieved a txt sayin ';you have no idea how much I miss you. I don't care if you send back **** or don't even reply...I miss it all'; We were back together within the week and have never looked back. We've since spoke about kids, marriage and buildin a home together. I couldn't be happierHow did you get your ex boyfriend back?
I just have to ask -- why would you -want- him back?





If he broke up with you, then there's a good reason for it. Maybe he's not interested in or ready for a commitment. In which case, just be civil with him and try to be friends. That means completely platonic. If you want any guy to respect you, you most definitely do not want to engage in any form of 'friends-with-benefits' behavior. That will definitely not get you back into a relationship anytime soon. After all, why would he commit to you when he's already getting the milk and cookies for free?





However, ultimately, you should just let it go. If he claims that you were too 'clingy' ( which is always the primary ammunition guys use ), then chasing after him and trying to get him back is going to cement his argument and keep you in the single pool even longer. Why not take a break from dating and focus on more important things like your education or your job, your friends and family, and your favorite hobbies? I'm sure one of those aspects has been feeling neglected since you donned those ';rose-colored glasses';, so go on -- pay it some much deserved attention.





Go do a girls night out and have some fun; or stay in and watch a movie marathon with lots of goodies to snack on. Or maybe you should do something for yourself, like a 'Me Day'. Think about it? What always makes you feel fantastic but haven't done in a while? Spa? Shopping? A nice long soak in a hot bubble bath?





Start treating yourself and let those ex-boyfriend thoughts fall by the wayside. You'll feel so much better, and look positively radiant to boot!





And if worse comes to worse, you can always take up a hobby to keep yourself busy.
Guys heads can't take pressure,when they walk away after initially letting them know it hurts you and you never want to loose them back off give them the silence they're craving.Soon enough if they love you or want you the head space will have given them time to think.Sometimes its not you it's other pressures or concerns but dealing with a love life too just tips the scales too much.They may even get worried that it's not like women to go quiet and wonder if you have gone off the boil and that will make them run back.Basically give them what they want and they will worry that you're not being yourself lol
My story... Is not too dramatic :D





he broke up with me because he said that he didn't 'love' me like he used to and that he thinks we should break up. So we did, and guess what, were back together.





We have a lot of mutual friends so we are with each other a lot. We decided to stay friends and continue to hang out. So we were on the way to france for a school trip and i was freezing, so he lent me his jacket. He cam and sat with me and we listened to my iPod. I fell asleep on his shoulder and when i woke up we talked and decided that we should go back out again.





so be friends with your ex and make him realise how much fun you used to have with each other :D
i never get back with my ex because there is a reason that we broke up
if you were too needy then back off = no contact until he calls you





if you did not attend to him enough= be more sensitve and sweet to him in small doses though