Friday, August 20, 2010

How do you get your ex boyfriend to want you again?

me %26amp; my ex bf broke up and i wanna get back with him but he says he doesnt know he said he loves me but he needs time off, were still talking but he is talking to someone else to and he went out on a date with her todayHow do you get your ex boyfriend to want you again?
You really need to look at the situation from the perspective of a man. A woman would feel special and loved if the man she broke up with came crawling back to her professing his undying love. Men don't find that charming or endearing at all. In fact, they find it annoying. So if your goal is to get him back, the best advice possible is act like a man. Put your emotions away when you're around him or talking to him, and never act desperate.





There's a lot to be said for the chase at the beginning of any new relationship. Remember back to when you and your ex were first dating. He'd do everything in his power to get your attention and to spend time with you. That likely fizzled as the relationship wore on and eventually things just fell apart. If you want to get him back forever you have to recreate that feeling in him. You have to set out to be the woman he wants to chase and then you cannot ever allow him to catch you completely.





A perfect first step towards this goal is to disappear from your ex boyfriend's life. Don't move thousands of miles away or refuse to talk to him, but don't initiate any contact with him at all. Make a point of doing things that improve you as a person. Go out with friends, have fun and never let your ex think that you are still hung up on him. When you aren't around and constantly available to him anymore he'll come looking for you. It's the hunter in him. Once he does you need to keep him on his toes which means you don't always return his calls, you suggest that you two be friends and you make excuses sometimes when he wants to get together. If you do this, he'll be on the path to win your heart yet again, this time for forever.





Don't give up on him if you believe he's the man you are meant to be with.


Good luck!

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