The ex gf of over 1.5 years broke up, and after 1 month of the break up, she finds a new boyfriend. It's been 3 months and she contacts me, asking how I'm ';coping'; (since the break up) and how we should be friends. I really don't want to since I'll hurt me to see her with another guy, and that's why I'm ignoring her. Would you get back with YOUR ex if given the chance? Do you think she still likes me?Would you start fresh with your ex girlfriend, given the chance?
in your case she has a new man so its best to just let go and she might like u but only as a person... if i had the chance to get back with my ex boyfriend... no i wouldnt just because there was a reason for the break up.. if she hurt u real bad dont bother with her find a better girl who wont break your heartWould you start fresh with your ex girlfriend, given the chance?
It's always hard after a break up, for both people in the relationship. It's obvious that she began a relationship with this other guy in a time of hardship and confusion. I dating a guy for two years and a couple months after the break-up, I began a relationship while I was still a complete wreck. I would take my ex back in a heartbeat because I will never love anyone as much as my ex. Of course she still loves you! She doesn't just forget about you overnight, and she has to be thinking about you if she wants you back in her life. Win her back! If you don't, you mind end up always regretting it. Good luck %26amp; follow your heart.
All my ex's suck. I don't give them the time of day.
If she's writing you messages like that she either:
1) Misses you
2) Made up a boyfriend
3) Isn't happy with her boyfriend
4) Is mean and wants to rub her relationship in your face.
I'd say blow her off. You have to make yourself happy, if seeing her with someone new will hurt you, don't put yourself through it. Either tell her you're fine but you dont want to be friends, or completely ignore her.
It depends on if you still have feelings for her. Usually when a girl does that she isn't really feeling the guy that she is with or he is either brushing her off(being indecisive as to what he wants to do) So with being friends with you she is using you as the safety net. If it hurts for you to see her with someone else, ask her why do you want to be friends? I'm cool. She will then drop the indecisive guy and come running back to you.
hmm, I've never had a serious relationship before but I don't think you should do it if it makes you feel bad.
I mean, one month and she has a bf already? well ok, I guess some people get over others quickly.
i would suggest that u take time and think this over and use your head not your heart. Love can make u do stupid things. So can the fear of being alone. Just remember that this person is an ex for a reason. Good luck!
she seems like she still likes you, yes. I personally have gotten back with a few ex's and things ended again. it always starts out like things will be better but then ends the same way.
hope it helps,
faith (:
Been in the same situation.
She has feelings for you, but only as a friend...
I would not get back with my ex because she is a jealous, lying player
i would say no; the likely hood of the same problems arriving or her leaving you again -- is probably going to happen.
Depends on why did you guys break up? ANd she went to another guy because she thinks she can get over you by being wit someone else. I'd say get back...but ask again why did u break up with her.
She probably still has feelings for you. She could have broke up with you to see if you'd be hurt..then she would know you really cared about her.
nopeeee
I don't have an ex girlfriend
!!!!!!!!!!! HELL NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wouldn't get back with my ex, cos she's a crazy *****.
I wouldn't, she's put on weight since I was with her. She's not worth going after now.
I've tried it and found the same problems, needless to say we broke up again.
Hey holio,
Man, this is a tough one for anybody of any age.
Would you start fresh with your ex girlfriend,
* Without any information you already have the information you need....She ain't here in your life today. I think that might be a real big clue for you, me or any of us.
...given the chance?
* Think about it. She's not even here with you right now to give you that chance. ';If'; you didn't deserve this how does that make you feel?
The ex gf of over 1.5 years broke up,
* Whoa! That tells a lot about you and your commitment to her as loyalty is rare and almost unheard of.
and after 1 month of the break up, she finds a new boyfriend.
* Okay, that should tell you something. She's in a hurry and it doesn't include you (aka; Also Know As; ...a no brainer).
* Man this is not good for you and I'm sorry as you certainly deserve better. Ummmh, the word respect comes to mind.
It's been 3 months and she contacts me, asking how I'm ';coping';
* She might be lying to you right now because she may not be any longer with the new dude and is rethinking about you. Just wait and see as you really don't know about these things; and the time it will take is in your favor no matter what happens.
(since the break up) and how we should be friends.
* ';If'; she is not with you now or was not with you in person at your place or hers and were not holding hands as she asked that question then ...who hand was she holding? ...Clue, it wasn't yours, unless you really know the truth of it all.
I really don't want to since I'll hurt me to see her with another guy,
* Bingo! Keep truck'n. If she is serious she will be back with you in less than 12 to 72 hours max.; as a rule in these matters; give or take a little or a lot and it is you who will decide the little or a lot depending on your tolerance level. I sense you are very tolerant.
and that's why I'm ignoring her.
* Great, you have a great tolerance level as ignoring is self imposed
waiting on your part.
* You don't mention your love for her or her for you unless you are substituting liking each other in the 1.5 years of being just friends; just boy and girlfriend. The good news is that liking each other ';first'; come before your true love for each other as a rule.
* In this case I would hope she's waiting for you to forgive her.
* She doesn't have to ask you for forgiveness because you are going to give it to her anyway. For it is you who asks ';Do you think she still likes me. She will know she is accepted back seeing your silent, kind and true spirit about her and without asking questions of her as it is a guarantee of her running off ...again ...forever.
Would you get back with YOUR ex if given the chance?
* No, if she has been intimate with him.
Do you think she still likes me?
* Her asking; how you are coping and how we should be friends may not mean what you want it to mean. So, ask her,';What do you mean by that?'; ';Are you asking or thinking you want to get back together again or what?
*If you can't get good quick and ';timely'; answers ...walk away; and Holio that is easier said than done as no one should ever be alone.
** What ever you decide be kind to her and most of all be kind to yourself for this will provide a safe place for her ...when she returns.
If she returns and she decides it is not safe for her you will stand the chance of loosing her. If it is not safe she will leave you.
Bless you my friend,
Paul
pl
Friday, August 20, 2010
What would you do if you were me and this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend? What do you think of what I did?
Im the typical ';good girl'; and my ex Mark was the typical ';bad boy';. He had a really good heart though. We were on and off for about 2 years. I was crazy in love with him. Because back then i was VERY innocent and didn't have much experience (I was a virgin) I was scared of getting hurt. I wouldn't kiss him at all and wouldn't tell him how i felt. He respected that i was a virgin. He never pressured me. Back then i guess i felt that if i didn't give him ANYTHING like if i didn't tell him how i feel kiss him or anything that if he'd hurt me it wouldn't hurt as much because i never tried.
He was 2 years older than me so he was looking for a serious relationship and because i was scared of getting hurt and wouldn't let my guards down i couldn't give him that. I back then was looking for a less serious relationship and hated that he didn't live the typical high school life like i did. I also always wondered what it would be like dating a guy who was the typical ';good boy'; and felt guilty for wondering. I treated him like crap. I would almost try to be mean to him. He had no idea how much i really loved him he honestly thought he didnt mean anything to me. Sometimes when we were broken up he'd have one night stands with these random slutty girls Back then because i couldnt understand how he needed intimacy %26amp; someone to show him they cared.I got fed up and angry and ended it with him saying ALOT of things i regret . It was tough after we broke up because I live next to his moms house so whenever he visits his mom i can see everything.
After we broke up i dated the typical ';good boy (Justin) He would rather play sports/be with his friends than me. I was his';trophy girlfriend'; He'd only see me when he wanted to show me to his friends or had nothing to do. He wasnt sexual. He'd rather watch sports then be intimate with me. For the 1st time in my life i realized how it felt to be with someone who you felt couldnt care less about you and wouldnt emotionally/physically show you how they feel. Because im a really good girl at heart it was very boring for me being with a guy who was also SO good. Im looking for a serious relationship and Justin wasnt. After me and Justin broke up i ended up having a one night stand with some guy. I NEVER before thought i could do something like that but the truth is i felt SO lonely and just wanted to have that sort of intimacy with a guy that i wasnt getting with Justin
Im finally ready for the relationship my ex mark wanted(a year and 3months later). Im not afraid to get hurt and am able to the girlfriend i always wanted to be with him. I ended up sending him a friendly email asking him hows he doing. Im worried though because he was living with this girl but they broke up around when me %26amp; Jay broke up. I hope they havnt gotten back together.
What do you think of all this?
Thanks!What would you do if you were me and this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend? What do you think of what I did?
i think that even though you may regret things that you did in the past, those actions helped you realize what you truly wanted.
and i think it's good that you didn't let your guard down and do something you didn't want to before you were ready
i think that you needed to go through all those experiences with justin and all that other stuff for you to realize that what and who you want is mark
it sounded like before you were unsure of what you wanted but these experiences have shown you exactly what you do want
and that maybe you weren't ready for a boyfriend like mark back then, but now you are and if you two get together i think that would be ahh-mayyyzing =)
good luck with everything and i hope it all works out =)What would you do if you were me and this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend? What do you think of what I did?
I think you should contact Mark and see if things will work out. Good luck.
i say that if mark and his girl arent back together then you should find out if hes willling to give you guys another chance...
hmm you probably should start by telling mark all of your feelings, like that you did really love him and that it was hard for you to express your feelings back then. after that see what he says, if he doesnt want to be with you even after you told him that there isnt much you can do except respect how he feels also
Karma, baby, Karma. If you're foshizly sure that you're ready, go for it, but be careful, don't do anything you don't want to do. Abstinence is key. So is confidence, but that's off subject.
call mark back, he was evidently a very nice boy to not pressure you to have sex with him when u didnt want to. He was into you for you, and that is great, you should definitly get back in touch with him. forget emailing. Call him and pour your heart out, tell him that you were stupid for letting him go %26amp; that you are ready for a real relationship with him now, emotionally and physically. but dont come off as a slut. he was with you for years, and people cannot turn that off. good luck-wish I could find this!
It's all good.
Don't worry about anything..
You can't change your past, but you can change your future.
Make it good for the both of you and don't let yourself down.
You seem like a wonderful girl and you have a lot ahead of you.
Embrace the change and let it flow.
Good luck =]
He was 2 years older than me so he was looking for a serious relationship and because i was scared of getting hurt and wouldn't let my guards down i couldn't give him that. I back then was looking for a less serious relationship and hated that he didn't live the typical high school life like i did. I also always wondered what it would be like dating a guy who was the typical ';good boy'; and felt guilty for wondering. I treated him like crap. I would almost try to be mean to him. He had no idea how much i really loved him he honestly thought he didnt mean anything to me. Sometimes when we were broken up he'd have one night stands with these random slutty girls Back then because i couldnt understand how he needed intimacy %26amp; someone to show him they cared.I got fed up and angry and ended it with him saying ALOT of things i regret . It was tough after we broke up because I live next to his moms house so whenever he visits his mom i can see everything.
After we broke up i dated the typical ';good boy (Justin) He would rather play sports/be with his friends than me. I was his';trophy girlfriend'; He'd only see me when he wanted to show me to his friends or had nothing to do. He wasnt sexual. He'd rather watch sports then be intimate with me. For the 1st time in my life i realized how it felt to be with someone who you felt couldnt care less about you and wouldnt emotionally/physically show you how they feel. Because im a really good girl at heart it was very boring for me being with a guy who was also SO good. Im looking for a serious relationship and Justin wasnt. After me and Justin broke up i ended up having a one night stand with some guy. I NEVER before thought i could do something like that but the truth is i felt SO lonely and just wanted to have that sort of intimacy with a guy that i wasnt getting with Justin
Im finally ready for the relationship my ex mark wanted(a year and 3months later). Im not afraid to get hurt and am able to the girlfriend i always wanted to be with him. I ended up sending him a friendly email asking him hows he doing. Im worried though because he was living with this girl but they broke up around when me %26amp; Jay broke up. I hope they havnt gotten back together.
What do you think of all this?
Thanks!What would you do if you were me and this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend? What do you think of what I did?
i think that even though you may regret things that you did in the past, those actions helped you realize what you truly wanted.
and i think it's good that you didn't let your guard down and do something you didn't want to before you were ready
i think that you needed to go through all those experiences with justin and all that other stuff for you to realize that what and who you want is mark
it sounded like before you were unsure of what you wanted but these experiences have shown you exactly what you do want
and that maybe you weren't ready for a boyfriend like mark back then, but now you are and if you two get together i think that would be ahh-mayyyzing =)
good luck with everything and i hope it all works out =)What would you do if you were me and this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend? What do you think of what I did?
I think you should contact Mark and see if things will work out. Good luck.
i say that if mark and his girl arent back together then you should find out if hes willling to give you guys another chance...
hmm you probably should start by telling mark all of your feelings, like that you did really love him and that it was hard for you to express your feelings back then. after that see what he says, if he doesnt want to be with you even after you told him that there isnt much you can do except respect how he feels also
Karma, baby, Karma. If you're foshizly sure that you're ready, go for it, but be careful, don't do anything you don't want to do. Abstinence is key. So is confidence, but that's off subject.
call mark back, he was evidently a very nice boy to not pressure you to have sex with him when u didnt want to. He was into you for you, and that is great, you should definitly get back in touch with him. forget emailing. Call him and pour your heart out, tell him that you were stupid for letting him go %26amp; that you are ready for a real relationship with him now, emotionally and physically. but dont come off as a slut. he was with you for years, and people cannot turn that off. good luck-wish I could find this!
It's all good.
Don't worry about anything..
You can't change your past, but you can change your future.
Make it good for the both of you and don't let yourself down.
You seem like a wonderful girl and you have a lot ahead of you.
Embrace the change and let it flow.
Good luck =]
What would you honestly think if your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend emailed you this?
My ex and I haven't spoken to each other for about a year and a couple months. Before we broke up we were on and off for 2 years. When we stopped talking we were not going out but we both know we still liked each other and wanted to get back together. I made a mistake and had a fling with this guy and lied to him and he found out about it and flipped out at me on MSN told me ';i wasn't the girl he thought i was, and that he was wrong about me and that i turned out how everyone warned him id turn out'; he then blocked and deleted me on MSN.
When i tried talking to his friend about it they didn't seem interested in hearing my side of the story. I ended up seeing him at the mall a couple months after we stopped talking and he just walked right by me and gave me a very dirty look.
I heard he moved on with someone else and so did I. Its been a year and 3 months since that day he flipped out and stopped talking to me. He just emailed me this.
Hey Lynn
Do you remember me? lol
I haven’t talked to you in a long time and I was just wondering how you were doing?
Are you still out of town or here in Ottawa?
Well anyways I hope all is good!
ttyl or something
Should I write back?
Do you think hes just being friendly or wanting something more?
What do you think about this?What would you honestly think if your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend emailed you this?
yeah why not? Don't reply too soon though and notice there are no kisses so don't be disalusioned and put kisses at the end of yours! Put a question in there so he has to reply and if he doesnt you know the email was simply out of curiosity!
XWhat would you honestly think if your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend emailed you this?
to be honest, maybe he misses you, but you have to be careful,do you still have feelings for him? if i were you, i wouldnt even forgive how he looked at you, and didnt want to give you another chance. what a jerk, he proberly thinks he can get you whenever he wants to.
i think he just misses you and is just curious on how you're doing. my ex does the same thing..
When i tried talking to his friend about it they didn't seem interested in hearing my side of the story. I ended up seeing him at the mall a couple months after we stopped talking and he just walked right by me and gave me a very dirty look.
I heard he moved on with someone else and so did I. Its been a year and 3 months since that day he flipped out and stopped talking to me. He just emailed me this.
Hey Lynn
Do you remember me? lol
I haven’t talked to you in a long time and I was just wondering how you were doing?
Are you still out of town or here in Ottawa?
Well anyways I hope all is good!
ttyl or something
Should I write back?
Do you think hes just being friendly or wanting something more?
What do you think about this?What would you honestly think if your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend emailed you this?
yeah why not? Don't reply too soon though and notice there are no kisses so don't be disalusioned and put kisses at the end of yours! Put a question in there so he has to reply and if he doesnt you know the email was simply out of curiosity!
XWhat would you honestly think if your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend emailed you this?
to be honest, maybe he misses you, but you have to be careful,do you still have feelings for him? if i were you, i wouldnt even forgive how he looked at you, and didnt want to give you another chance. what a jerk, he proberly thinks he can get you whenever he wants to.
i think he just misses you and is just curious on how you're doing. my ex does the same thing..
How to get your ex back?
im a 14 year old girl and i want my ex back. his friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me and told me because my friends were anoying him and telling him i told them to come over there and yell at him WHICH I DIDNT.
Every day about 10 people went up to him and asked him stuff that i had no clue about it tell his friend told me about it.
i havnt talked to him sence his friend told me he wanted to break up.plus everyone keeps saying hes being mean to everyone latley. SO what should i do :( why do you think he didnt telll me this to my face?How to get your ex back?
HE DOESNT CARE FOR YOUHow to get your ex back?
that's an unmanly way to break up with someone. i think you should talk to him and even if he doesn't want to go back with you just straighten out any misunderstandings.
i think he is sacred and upset u should try talking to him alone and i also think your friends are very jealous people
Every day about 10 people went up to him and asked him stuff that i had no clue about it tell his friend told me about it.
i havnt talked to him sence his friend told me he wanted to break up.plus everyone keeps saying hes being mean to everyone latley. SO what should i do :( why do you think he didnt telll me this to my face?How to get your ex back?
HE DOESNT CARE FOR YOUHow to get your ex back?
that's an unmanly way to break up with someone. i think you should talk to him and even if he doesn't want to go back with you just straighten out any misunderstandings.
i think he is sacred and upset u should try talking to him alone and i also think your friends are very jealous people
How to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?
We have been together almost 2 years now and his ex girlfriend keeps trying to contact him. I am not sure if it's because she wants to know how their (now our dogs) are or if she is just trying to cause trouble. My boyfriend never responds back to her and when ever she tries to request him as a friend on social networks he rejects her, but it really bugs me. She just recently got engaged and that seems to be when the behavior got worse. Should I say something to her to see what it is she wants or just leave it alone?How to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?
ignore it and move onHow to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?
One way for him to get her to stop is for him to simply state that he does not want to hear from her again. He needs to put his foot down. He might not want to be confrontational or look cruel, but he has to be firm about this. It's up to him to tell her that what she's doing is unacceptable and if it continues after that, it's harassment. he can make a complaint to the social networking people to have her removed from their network if it continues. Even the police can get involved.
She's getting married to someone else, but she might be so insecure and unsure about the new relationship that she's trying to go back to something safe... your guy.
Leave it alone or else your involvement could open a whole new can of worms. Just let it be.
ignore it and move onHow to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?
One way for him to get her to stop is for him to simply state that he does not want to hear from her again. He needs to put his foot down. He might not want to be confrontational or look cruel, but he has to be firm about this. It's up to him to tell her that what she's doing is unacceptable and if it continues after that, it's harassment. he can make a complaint to the social networking people to have her removed from their network if it continues. Even the police can get involved.
She's getting married to someone else, but she might be so insecure and unsure about the new relationship that she's trying to go back to something safe... your guy.
Leave it alone or else your involvement could open a whole new can of worms. Just let it be.
How can you get your long gone ex back when he has a girlfriend and you two have been broken up for almost 2yr
i still have strong feelings for my long gone ex boyfriend he is currently in college in toldeo and has a girlfriend with whom he been with for months now im a junior in high school living in cleveland which is where he lived and comes back every weekend what should i do i was gonna try and go to toledo when i finish high school what should i do to get my long gone ex back we haven't seen each other since december and we haven't talked over the phone in like 2 months nowHow can you get your long gone ex back when he has a girlfriend and you two have been broken up for almost 2yr
you're only a junior and he's already in college?
well
you need to move on
i'm sorry
but just forget him
leave him aloe
he has a girlfriend
meet some new guys from school
it's been two years it is time to move on
=]How can you get your long gone ex back when he has a girlfriend and you two have been broken up for almost 2yr
hes went on with his life and it would be wise for you to do the same, you will no doubt get your heart broke again if you try to persue him again. he has a girl friend and theyare closer to age than you was to him. and not only that but he could possibly have feelings for this girl. its time for you to move on.hes not talking to you because he doesnt have a need to. try to be friends with him, thats all you can do.
It's not fair to try and win him back now. He has a girlfriend!! Imagine how you would feel if you had a boyfriend and suddenly he left you because his ex from 2 years ago wanted him back? You'd be shattered. Just move on.
girl, i know it's hard but you have to find a way to get over him. would you like it if you were with a guy and his ex girlfriend starts trying to get back with him. you have to respect his new relationship.
im srry hun but your not getting him back....try moving on there are plenty of fish in the sea
Get a grip on yourself...on your emotions!
Move on with your life!
ya...i dont think it will happen
ummm.....well i think u should just move onnnn!!
Who broke up with who? and why did you break up? You see people tend to remember the good times after a long term break up if the break up wasn't bad and ended friendly, after a failed attempt to a relationship with another guy you tend to compare your previous relationships and start thinking how great they actually were comparatively, and this may give you the false impression you still have feelings for them!
Anyhow this may not be your case, the only way is to talk to him again, see if he is happy with his relationship and if he is forget him unless you wana be a ***** and break them up!
In the case he is not happy with his relationship then you have a shot at getting him back, but it really all comes down to why you broke up and who broke up with who...myspace icons Ltd
you're only a junior and he's already in college?
well
you need to move on
i'm sorry
but just forget him
leave him aloe
he has a girlfriend
meet some new guys from school
it's been two years it is time to move on
=]How can you get your long gone ex back when he has a girlfriend and you two have been broken up for almost 2yr
hes went on with his life and it would be wise for you to do the same, you will no doubt get your heart broke again if you try to persue him again. he has a girl friend and theyare closer to age than you was to him. and not only that but he could possibly have feelings for this girl. its time for you to move on.hes not talking to you because he doesnt have a need to. try to be friends with him, thats all you can do.
It's not fair to try and win him back now. He has a girlfriend!! Imagine how you would feel if you had a boyfriend and suddenly he left you because his ex from 2 years ago wanted him back? You'd be shattered. Just move on.
girl, i know it's hard but you have to find a way to get over him. would you like it if you were with a guy and his ex girlfriend starts trying to get back with him. you have to respect his new relationship.
im srry hun but your not getting him back....try moving on there are plenty of fish in the sea
Get a grip on yourself...on your emotions!
Move on with your life!
ya...i dont think it will happen
ummm.....well i think u should just move onnnn!!
Who broke up with who? and why did you break up? You see people tend to remember the good times after a long term break up if the break up wasn't bad and ended friendly, after a failed attempt to a relationship with another guy you tend to compare your previous relationships and start thinking how great they actually were comparatively, and this may give you the false impression you still have feelings for them!
Anyhow this may not be your case, the only way is to talk to him again, see if he is happy with his relationship and if he is forget him unless you wana be a ***** and break them up!
In the case he is not happy with his relationship then you have a shot at getting him back, but it really all comes down to why you broke up and who broke up with who...
If this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend would you of done what I did? Do you think what I did was stupid?
Im the typical ';good girl'; and my ex Mark was the typical ';bad boy'; He had a really good heart though. We were together (on off) for 2 years. I was crazy in love with him. Back then i was VERY innocent and didn't have much experience (I was a virgin) I was scared of getting hurt. I wouldn't kiss him at all %26amp;wouldn't tell him how i felt. He respected that i was a virgin %26amp; never pressured me.He was 2 years older than me %26amp; was looking for a serious relationship and because i was scared of getting hurt and wouldn't let my guards down i couldn't give him that.I also wondered what it would be like dating a guy who was the typical ';good boy'; and felt guilty. He had no idea how much i loved him, he honestly thought he didnt mean anything to me Back then i couldnt understand how he needed intimacy %26amp; someone to show him they cared.I got angry %26amp; broke up with him saying ALOT of things i regret.
After we broke up i dated the typical ';good boy'; (didnt smoke, drink and had his life in order) (Justin) He would rather play sports/be with his friends than me. I was his';trophy GF'; He'd only see me when he wanted to show me to his friends or had nothing to do. He wasnt sexual %26amp; rather watch sports then be intimate For the 1st time in my life i realized how it felt to be with someone couldnt care less about you and wouldnt emotionally/ physically show you how they feel. Because im a really good girl at heart it was very boring for me being with a guy who was also SO good. Im looking for a serious relationship and Justin wasnt. We broke up.
Im finally ready for the relationship Mark wanted(a year and 3months later). Im not afraid to get hurt and am able to the girlfriend i always wanted to be with him. I ended up sending him a friendly email asking him hows he doing. Im worried because he was living with this girl but they broke up but i hope there not back together.
What do you think of all this?
Thanks!If this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend would you of done what I did? Do you think what I did was stupid?
you should talk to him face to face and tell him how you feel.
but FIRST. find out if he's still single!~
good luck (:If this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend would you of done what I did? Do you think what I did was stupid?
Go back to the guy and after all this time, maybe you two could start fooling around together and see where that goes, not bed him down at first, but rather see how it feels to be sexual with someone for a change.
After we broke up i dated the typical ';good boy'; (didnt smoke, drink and had his life in order) (Justin) He would rather play sports/be with his friends than me. I was his';trophy GF'; He'd only see me when he wanted to show me to his friends or had nothing to do. He wasnt sexual %26amp; rather watch sports then be intimate For the 1st time in my life i realized how it felt to be with someone couldnt care less about you and wouldnt emotionally/ physically show you how they feel. Because im a really good girl at heart it was very boring for me being with a guy who was also SO good. Im looking for a serious relationship and Justin wasnt. We broke up.
Im finally ready for the relationship Mark wanted(a year and 3months later). Im not afraid to get hurt and am able to the girlfriend i always wanted to be with him. I ended up sending him a friendly email asking him hows he doing. Im worried because he was living with this girl but they broke up but i hope there not back together.
What do you think of all this?
Thanks!If this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend would you of done what I did? Do you think what I did was stupid?
you should talk to him face to face and tell him how you feel.
but FIRST. find out if he's still single!~
good luck (:If this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend would you of done what I did? Do you think what I did was stupid?
Go back to the guy and after all this time, maybe you two could start fooling around together and see where that goes, not bed him down at first, but rather see how it feels to be sexual with someone for a change.
If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
Before my Ex and I broke up we were on and off for 2 years. When we were about to get back together I made a mistake and had a fling with this guy and lied to him and he found out about it and flipped out at me on MSN he told me ';i wasn't the girl he thought i was, and that he was wrong about me and that i turned out how everyone warned him id turn out'; He then told me to '; f off, and that he gave me his heart his time and his trust but i gave him nothing but lies'; he then blocked and deleted me on MSN. He never talked to me again
When i tried talking to his friend about it they didn't seem interested in hearing my side of the story. I ended up seeing him at the mall a couple months after we stopped talking and he just walked right by me and gave me a very dirty look.
I heard he moved on with someone else and so did I. Its been a year and 3 months since that day he flipped out and stopped talking to me. He just emailed me this today
Hey Lynn
Do you remember me? lol
I haven鈥檛 talked to you in a long time and I was just wondering how you were doing?
Are you still out of town or here in Ottawa?
Well anyways I hope all is good!
ttyl or something
Should I write back?
Do you think hes just being friendly or wanting something more?
What do you think about this?If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
Write back in a friendly manner. If you guys continue to talk and something more comes of it, so be it.If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
I wouldn't answer...why did he get in touch after so long and why should you only talk on his terms? I think he'd be looking for something more because if he just wanted to be friends he'd have written a lot sooner. Sometimes the past is better left in the past.
He wants to get back together. If he didn't, he wouldn't bother emailing. Whether you still want to get back with him is another question.
When i tried talking to his friend about it they didn't seem interested in hearing my side of the story. I ended up seeing him at the mall a couple months after we stopped talking and he just walked right by me and gave me a very dirty look.
I heard he moved on with someone else and so did I. Its been a year and 3 months since that day he flipped out and stopped talking to me. He just emailed me this today
Hey Lynn
Do you remember me? lol
I haven鈥檛 talked to you in a long time and I was just wondering how you were doing?
Are you still out of town or here in Ottawa?
Well anyways I hope all is good!
ttyl or something
Should I write back?
Do you think hes just being friendly or wanting something more?
What do you think about this?If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
Write back in a friendly manner. If you guys continue to talk and something more comes of it, so be it.If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
I wouldn't answer...why did he get in touch after so long and why should you only talk on his terms? I think he'd be looking for something more because if he just wanted to be friends he'd have written a lot sooner. Sometimes the past is better left in the past.
He wants to get back together. If he didn't, he wouldn't bother emailing. Whether you still want to get back with him is another question.
Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
Ok so I really want my ex boyrfriend Jake back. I'll give you the background info. We dated for 4 months last winter and then he broke up with me on valentines day. He told me that he didn't think he liked me as much as I liked him.
I started dating another guy and it lasted like 2 months. A few weeks after that was over, Jake came back and asked for me back. We hung out for the weekend but then the next week he didn't call me at all. I called him to see what was up and he told me that he had changed his mind again and that he didn't want to be with me. Why did he come back then? Was he just jealous from me dating another guy or did he really miss me?
I know he probably sounds like a douche bag but I can't stop thinking about him. It's been 3 months since I last saw him since I'm home from school for the summer (I'm in college). He texted me a couple weeks ago to ask me when I was moving back to school. Other than that we haven't talked much over the summer at all. I've been trying to move on but I can't!
Is there anyway I could get him back? Or do I just have to take a reality check that we will never be together because he doesn't like me? Tell me what you think my chances are or what I should do about the situation once I go back to school?
Thanks for your time!Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
Hello
Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to remove the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..
2.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Men just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When looking good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
I learned these tips and a lot more in a great guide that already helped more then 6100 in 67 different countries to get their ex back. You can find great review and information about this guide that was helpful for me here:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-u鈥?/a>
I hope you will get your ex boyfriend soon!Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
I know it's going to be hard but leave the past in the past and move on. Never go back to your ex no matter how much you like him. It sounded like he was just jealous of you dating another guy. Trust me, leave him behind and find someone who will treat you right.
nah he just wants what he doesn't have and he's using you out of convenience, move on and then he will move on and then you won't have this problem anymore
he just didnt want to buy u the valentines day gift
too long did not read.
It seems pretty well obvious by your explanation that he does not want to be with you, saying that he doesn't even like you as much as you did him. But if you really want him back just tell him exactly how you feel. I don't know whats up with people these days and not being able to do that. The highschool drama was supposed to end with highschool. Just tell him what he means to you and ask him to really consider being with you again. There is no more simple or common solution to this. If he wants to be with you, he'll make the choice and come back.
Spend every free minute of every day doing something that makes you happy, either with friends or someone new.
If you think that there is nothing that could possibly make you happy, go out and do something that is stereotypically fun, for example, going to an amusement park or a funny movie.
It is hard, but if you want to get out of where you are, you gotta do it.
Eventually you will forget about Jake. Let him know how you feel one last time, and then cease chasing him - if he is worth it, he will come to you.
I started dating another guy and it lasted like 2 months. A few weeks after that was over, Jake came back and asked for me back. We hung out for the weekend but then the next week he didn't call me at all. I called him to see what was up and he told me that he had changed his mind again and that he didn't want to be with me. Why did he come back then? Was he just jealous from me dating another guy or did he really miss me?
I know he probably sounds like a douche bag but I can't stop thinking about him. It's been 3 months since I last saw him since I'm home from school for the summer (I'm in college). He texted me a couple weeks ago to ask me when I was moving back to school. Other than that we haven't talked much over the summer at all. I've been trying to move on but I can't!
Is there anyway I could get him back? Or do I just have to take a reality check that we will never be together because he doesn't like me? Tell me what you think my chances are or what I should do about the situation once I go back to school?
Thanks for your time!Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
Hello
Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to remove the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..
2.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Men just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When looking good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
I learned these tips and a lot more in a great guide that already helped more then 6100 in 67 different countries to get their ex back. You can find great review and information about this guide that was helpful for me here:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-u鈥?/a>
I hope you will get your ex boyfriend soon!Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
I know it's going to be hard but leave the past in the past and move on. Never go back to your ex no matter how much you like him. It sounded like he was just jealous of you dating another guy. Trust me, leave him behind and find someone who will treat you right.
nah he just wants what he doesn't have and he's using you out of convenience, move on and then he will move on and then you won't have this problem anymore
he just didnt want to buy u the valentines day gift
too long did not read.
It seems pretty well obvious by your explanation that he does not want to be with you, saying that he doesn't even like you as much as you did him. But if you really want him back just tell him exactly how you feel. I don't know whats up with people these days and not being able to do that. The highschool drama was supposed to end with highschool. Just tell him what he means to you and ask him to really consider being with you again. There is no more simple or common solution to this. If he wants to be with you, he'll make the choice and come back.
Spend every free minute of every day doing something that makes you happy, either with friends or someone new.
If you think that there is nothing that could possibly make you happy, go out and do something that is stereotypically fun, for example, going to an amusement park or a funny movie.
It is hard, but if you want to get out of where you are, you gotta do it.
Eventually you will forget about Jake. Let him know how you feel one last time, and then cease chasing him - if he is worth it, he will come to you.
How to tell if your ex still wants you back?
My ex and I broke up 2 months ago. I was the one who got dumped. Recently she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend, the one she dumped me for. I'm confused, sometimes she seemed like she's interested in me, she would tell me how she feels about the relationship she had with the guy, how angry she is with him for cheating on her, and at times when i show her some interest, she would play hard to get like ignoring me. Need help!How to tell if your ex still wants you back?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/How to tell if your ex still wants you back?
It sounds like you should just move on and find someone new. If she dumped you it's pretty obvious she was ready to move on. If she's telling you about how she feels about her relationship with the guy it sounds like she feels comfortable telling you about moving on from you (which means there's basically no going back), because if i was trying to get back with someone, the last thing I would be doing is rubbing in their face that I had moved on from them and talk about my new relationship with them. Take her as ';playing hard to get'; as her not wanting it. Leave it and move on.
well. ur girl must be suffering from the hardships shes having. i cant really tell how but. here are some of the symptoms she might show.
talks to u in long hours.
laughs at every joke u tell.
interested in every topic u open about u.
hey. someday she might actually tell u how she feels about u. u should ask her a question like ';am i still in ur heart?'; or like ';do i still have a chance?'; and ';whats the status of our friendship?';
she said she broke up with the guy for u. so i guess that means she wants u back. and u are definitely in a hard track right now. coz u cant tell yet if she wants u back or if she just wants a friend to share her problems and hardships with. but she is showing some symptoms that this might be a step to go further.
You can tell if she shakes her butt in your face, and says got to blast. because those are personal facts and she would only tell the ones she loves that.
Thats how i found out my bf loves me.
She doesn't want to be romantically involved with you. She is using you as a friend crutch. Get someone else. As long as she knows she has a hold on your she will keep you under her foot.
Let your ex b your ex n move on
she broke up wit u for another guy she will definitely do it again
she's a drama queen...stay away.myspace icons Ltd
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/How to tell if your ex still wants you back?
It sounds like you should just move on and find someone new. If she dumped you it's pretty obvious she was ready to move on. If she's telling you about how she feels about her relationship with the guy it sounds like she feels comfortable telling you about moving on from you (which means there's basically no going back), because if i was trying to get back with someone, the last thing I would be doing is rubbing in their face that I had moved on from them and talk about my new relationship with them. Take her as ';playing hard to get'; as her not wanting it. Leave it and move on.
well. ur girl must be suffering from the hardships shes having. i cant really tell how but. here are some of the symptoms she might show.
talks to u in long hours.
laughs at every joke u tell.
interested in every topic u open about u.
hey. someday she might actually tell u how she feels about u. u should ask her a question like ';am i still in ur heart?'; or like ';do i still have a chance?'; and ';whats the status of our friendship?';
she said she broke up with the guy for u. so i guess that means she wants u back. and u are definitely in a hard track right now. coz u cant tell yet if she wants u back or if she just wants a friend to share her problems and hardships with. but she is showing some symptoms that this might be a step to go further.
You can tell if she shakes her butt in your face, and says got to blast. because those are personal facts and she would only tell the ones she loves that.
Thats how i found out my bf loves me.
She doesn't want to be romantically involved with you. She is using you as a friend crutch. Get someone else. As long as she knows she has a hold on your she will keep you under her foot.
Let your ex b your ex n move on
she broke up wit u for another guy she will definitely do it again
she's a drama queen...stay away.
HOW TO GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK?
I will try to make this as short and sweet as I possibly can because im the type that can give great advice but cant take my own. Ive known this guy for about 5 years. We were always friends but never pursued anything like that. In the meantime I was in a relationship and so was he for three years with someone way older than him. She is also very unattractive and heavy compared to me. He always breaks up with her constantly and cheats on her and she takes him back EVERY TIME. Anyways we started dating after two years of not seeing eachother at all because all our mutual friends told me he liked me so what the hell I gave it a shot. He did EVERYTHING FOR ME for about two months, came to see me everyday, bought me anything I wanted, took me out, bought new things to impress me..basically everything to make me happy. He never tried to make a move on me once, all we did was makeout and he was very aware this is how I start things. Im also very outgoing and alot of men want to date me and he sees that. Hes more shy and reserved but still very attractive. Anyways things were perfect and I had the upper hand in the relationship, but still showed my affection to him willingly and was very loyal until one day when I was sick in bed he didnt come to see me. I was shocked and knew something was up so I didnt bother to call or text him for two days or respond to him and I also put some things in my facebook status that may have pissed him off. He changes his facebook status to single ( so gay I know) and his ex - girlfriend is commenting all over his wall. He had called her within the days of me ignoring him. I questioned why he did this and he said he was in a bad mood so I clearly lashed out without thinking and said '; if you want to be with her over me thats fine , i never liked you, and if you ever want me back you better crawl on your knees and hung up '; he questioned my confidence after that through a text and said '; how dare you say im back with her im not back with her shes my friend and she stuck by me for three years '; I never responded. In the meantime hes telling our friends how much he hates me, this man does not hate ANYONE. So two weeks later I text him and say '; So I hear you hate me whats up with that ';? NO RESPONSE ..so I apoligized for screaming at him and down talking him and her and I said I still want to be friends and he responded immediately saying of course we can be friends still. He refuses to see me and will NOT hang out with me. I know hes using his ex girlfriend for sex right now and he feels guilty going back and forth but HONESTLY WTF IS GOING ON IN THIS SITUATION?!HOW TO GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK?
Hello
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..
2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously make phone calls to him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and eating healthy. When on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. You can learn about the most popular and reliable guides in this helpful blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/top-rated-鈥?/a>
Hope it helps.HOW TO GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:
http://www.exbackguides.com/
Hello
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..
2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously make phone calls to him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and eating healthy. When on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. You can learn about the most popular and reliable guides in this helpful blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/top-rated-鈥?/a>
Hope it helps.HOW TO GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:
http://www.exbackguides.com/
Boys - what can your ex girlfriend do to win you over?
what would make you want your ex girlfriend back? my boyfriend and i broke up a week ago and he still talks to me and texts me and stuff. i never ever start the conversations and some days for no reason at all he'll link me to a youtube video or something to get my attention. but how can i make him want me back? how can i make him jealous and regret breaking up with me?Boys - what can your ex girlfriend do to win you over?
maybe nothing.
erase my memory and not cheat on me for two years with like 5 different guys this time.Boys - what can your ex girlfriend do to win you over?
of my ex wanted me back she would have to get a massive tat of my name on her chest. If i were you i would find some guy that you like then post a picture with you having the word property of whoever on you're arm.
well if you don't mind foul play make it seem like his current girl friend is cheating on him then comfort him in his time of need.... however you might want to save that for your last resort
get down on him men love that!!
maybe nothing.
erase my memory and not cheat on me for two years with like 5 different guys this time.Boys - what can your ex girlfriend do to win you over?
of my ex wanted me back she would have to get a massive tat of my name on her chest. If i were you i would find some guy that you like then post a picture with you having the word property of whoever on you're arm.
well if you don't mind foul play make it seem like his current girl friend is cheating on him then comfort him in his time of need.... however you might want to save that for your last resort
get down on him men love that!!
How Long Did It Take For Your Ex-Boyfriend To Call You?
I was dating a guy for about two months. I'm 36, he's 42. Things were going great! We had met online and after the 2nd date, he told me that he wasn't interested in dating anyone else and removed his profile from the online dating site where we met.
He dated his last girlfriend for 1 1/2 years and he broke up with her 4 months ago because her family didn't like him, she wanted kids (he doesn't) and he said the sex wasn't good. Four days ago, he called me and told me that his ex-gf has been calling him and wants to meet up with him. He didn't know if he wanted to meet with her...he really didn't see the point b/c of the issues they had, but he felt bad because she is a really sweet girl. I encouraged him to meet with her to see what she wanted and told him that we couldn't really move forward in our relationship until he resolved issues with her. He has friends coming in town today and they're going to be here for a week. He told me he wanted to wait until after his company was gone to deal with meeting with her. I encouraged him to meet with her before his friends got here, but I'm not sure if he did or not. It's been 4 days since we've spoken. I have not texted, called, or emailed...and he hasn't either. It's hard because I'm so used to hearing from him multiple times a day. I'm sort of in limbo right now...waiting to find out what happens...and although I'm starting to move on, preparing myself for the possibility that he may get back together with her...I'm just wondering...when a guy is dealing with ';an issue';...how long does it usually take before they start calling again? (days, weeks, months)?? What has been your experience??How Long Did It Take For Your Ex-Boyfriend To Call You?
I'm gonna be honest with you. If he is completely certain he wants to pursue something with you and that he has ZERO interest in his ex, he wouldn't have agreed to meet with her.
He dated his last girlfriend for 1 1/2 years and he broke up with her 4 months ago because her family didn't like him, she wanted kids (he doesn't) and he said the sex wasn't good. Four days ago, he called me and told me that his ex-gf has been calling him and wants to meet up with him. He didn't know if he wanted to meet with her...he really didn't see the point b/c of the issues they had, but he felt bad because she is a really sweet girl. I encouraged him to meet with her to see what she wanted and told him that we couldn't really move forward in our relationship until he resolved issues with her. He has friends coming in town today and they're going to be here for a week. He told me he wanted to wait until after his company was gone to deal with meeting with her. I encouraged him to meet with her before his friends got here, but I'm not sure if he did or not. It's been 4 days since we've spoken. I have not texted, called, or emailed...and he hasn't either. It's hard because I'm so used to hearing from him multiple times a day. I'm sort of in limbo right now...waiting to find out what happens...and although I'm starting to move on, preparing myself for the possibility that he may get back together with her...I'm just wondering...when a guy is dealing with ';an issue';...how long does it usually take before they start calling again? (days, weeks, months)?? What has been your experience??How Long Did It Take For Your Ex-Boyfriend To Call You?
I'm gonna be honest with you. If he is completely certain he wants to pursue something with you and that he has ZERO interest in his ex, he wouldn't have agreed to meet with her.
What would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
Hey,
My ex and i split up two weeks back. We cant avoid each other due to attending the same sports club 4-5 times a week.
However, i am taking two weeks off training (quoting illness and holiday as my reasons) to sort myself out. I plan to just concentrate on myself, bring back the guy i used to be, let go of ';us'; and get to the stage where i can just relax around her and have fun like we used to......as friends.
In two weeks me and a group of friends are going over the Dublin to celebrate my 21st birthday- my ex girlfriend is meant to be coming too as she is a big part of my friendship group. We are meant to be meeting for a drink before hand too, to clear the air.
My question to you guys is how to act in two weeks to be most attractive to my ex? MY gut instincts tell me:
- do not talk about the past
- just have fun banter with her like i used, and flirt a little but not over powering
- continue to give her alot of space
- just relax around her
Any suggestions would really really help guys, i really like this girl and although i know it will take a lot of time, patience and control to get a relationship back, i know it is what i really want.
Thanks
xWhat would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
You are completely right, all of the bullet points you have listed are completely the right way to go about it...take time and patience and it will pay off...
Good luck to you my dear, really wish my ex boyfriend would think like this.... :)What would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
Yes you got it right that you have to be patient that means you are on the right track.I have given these tips to many people and it worked well and i see it will be same for you as well.Just go through them:
How you get back together is going to depend a lot on how you broke up.
If you were the one to call it off, then you are going to have to be very careful about the way you re-approach her. She was most likely very hurt after your relationship ended, so asking her to put herself in that position again is going to be difficult. A girl is going to translate your actions as “I thought I could do better, turns out I can’t, so I guess you’ll do”. That’s not going to work a lot of the time.
If you were the one that called it off, then getting things going again is going to involve some pride swallowing on your part. You need to admit that you were wrong to call it off in the first place. A good way of doing this is to say something along the lines of “You know, I really miss the (insert something she likes here) we used to do.” Depending on her response you have your opening for a new ‘first’ date.
On the other hand, if she was the one that called things off you need to approach things differently. There was something about you, or about the situation, that didn’t make her happy. All you need to do is figure out what that was and change it, and you are half way to winning her back. From there you need her to become aware of the changed situation, re-establish contact, show her how things will be different and then convince her that getting back together is the best thing for both of you.
That sounds so caring, you must be a nice guy. My partner and I broke up for a month after ten years together. I couldnt stand being apart and neither could he. He came round one night and we just watched a film had a drink together and things happened naturally. We laughed and cuddled up and realised how much we still care and love each other. It was hard to move on, I kept asking if he'd slept with anyone else in those weeks and it started to come between us. I just think whatever happened he came back to me so noone else obviously makes him feel the same. I kept dwelling on the problems we had in the past which doesnt help. Anyway you are right not to talk about the past, my partner says the future is most important and he wants us to get married. If it is meant to be it will be so yes, just relax and things will happen if it is what you both want. Good luck.
Is there something that she loves about you? like maybe your smile (i love to see my guy smile) or her favorite shirt of yours? think about those things. Your suggestions are great
My ex and i split up two weeks back. We cant avoid each other due to attending the same sports club 4-5 times a week.
However, i am taking two weeks off training (quoting illness and holiday as my reasons) to sort myself out. I plan to just concentrate on myself, bring back the guy i used to be, let go of ';us'; and get to the stage where i can just relax around her and have fun like we used to......as friends.
In two weeks me and a group of friends are going over the Dublin to celebrate my 21st birthday- my ex girlfriend is meant to be coming too as she is a big part of my friendship group. We are meant to be meeting for a drink before hand too, to clear the air.
My question to you guys is how to act in two weeks to be most attractive to my ex? MY gut instincts tell me:
- do not talk about the past
- just have fun banter with her like i used, and flirt a little but not over powering
- continue to give her alot of space
- just relax around her
Any suggestions would really really help guys, i really like this girl and although i know it will take a lot of time, patience and control to get a relationship back, i know it is what i really want.
Thanks
xWhat would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
You are completely right, all of the bullet points you have listed are completely the right way to go about it...take time and patience and it will pay off...
Good luck to you my dear, really wish my ex boyfriend would think like this.... :)What would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
Yes you got it right that you have to be patient that means you are on the right track.I have given these tips to many people and it worked well and i see it will be same for you as well.Just go through them:
How you get back together is going to depend a lot on how you broke up.
If you were the one to call it off, then you are going to have to be very careful about the way you re-approach her. She was most likely very hurt after your relationship ended, so asking her to put herself in that position again is going to be difficult. A girl is going to translate your actions as “I thought I could do better, turns out I can’t, so I guess you’ll do”. That’s not going to work a lot of the time.
If you were the one that called it off, then getting things going again is going to involve some pride swallowing on your part. You need to admit that you were wrong to call it off in the first place. A good way of doing this is to say something along the lines of “You know, I really miss the (insert something she likes here) we used to do.” Depending on her response you have your opening for a new ‘first’ date.
On the other hand, if she was the one that called things off you need to approach things differently. There was something about you, or about the situation, that didn’t make her happy. All you need to do is figure out what that was and change it, and you are half way to winning her back. From there you need her to become aware of the changed situation, re-establish contact, show her how things will be different and then convince her that getting back together is the best thing for both of you.
That sounds so caring, you must be a nice guy. My partner and I broke up for a month after ten years together. I couldnt stand being apart and neither could he. He came round one night and we just watched a film had a drink together and things happened naturally. We laughed and cuddled up and realised how much we still care and love each other. It was hard to move on, I kept asking if he'd slept with anyone else in those weeks and it started to come between us. I just think whatever happened he came back to me so noone else obviously makes him feel the same. I kept dwelling on the problems we had in the past which doesnt help. Anyway you are right not to talk about the past, my partner says the future is most important and he wants us to get married. If it is meant to be it will be so yes, just relax and things will happen if it is what you both want. Good luck.
Is there something that she loves about you? like maybe your smile (i love to see my guy smile) or her favorite shirt of yours? think about those things. Your suggestions are great
How to get over your ex boyfriend?
i love my ex soo much! it hurts and i just wish the pain will go away and i could get over him. but i love him like crazy. i wish that me and him lasted longer he was my best friend and boyfriend. i loved him up to the point where it hurts. i mean he broke up with me because ';we werent connecting'; but really it was because i was too emotional and i complained to much. because he told my friends that. and he broke up with me on december 2 on the phone. me and him went out for 7 months and hung out alot. i miss him and i wish knew what to do to get him back. i mean i did the most romantic stuff in our relashinship. it was like a freggen love story. someone please help me on how to win him back. or should i just wait till he comes or give him signs i dont hate him for what he did. PLEASE HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP.How to get over your ex boyfriend?
I got dumped a month ago... so I can relate. My bf and I broke up on the phone, too, and I haven't communicated with him since. I wish we could be back together... I just don't know if there's a way. I'm going to just be patient and hope I feel better soon. C'est la vie!myspace icons Ltd
I got dumped a month ago... so I can relate. My bf and I broke up on the phone, too, and I haven't communicated with him since. I wish we could be back together... I just don't know if there's a way. I'm going to just be patient and hope I feel better soon. C'est la vie!
What if your ex-boyfriend 'I want to talk to you'?
Me and my ex-boyfriend was talking on the phone saying that he really wants to talk to me.
But i really don't want to talk to him bcuz he broke me heart so many times we dated and i really don't knw what to do about this i do want to get back with him but then i say i don' t want to
I NEED HELP
SHOULD I DATE HIM AGIAN
AND HOW MANY TIMES HE BROKE MY HEART SEEN WE DATED I DON'T KNW IF I CAN STAND IT
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!What if your ex-boyfriend 'I want to talk to you'?
if you are going to be unhappy dating him then dont go out with him. also only go out with him if you really like him not because you guys dated before or he likes you.
if you really like him and you will be happy dating him and are willing to go through the ups and downs of yalls relationship then go out with him.
But i really don't want to talk to him bcuz he broke me heart so many times we dated and i really don't knw what to do about this i do want to get back with him but then i say i don' t want to
I NEED HELP
SHOULD I DATE HIM AGIAN
AND HOW MANY TIMES HE BROKE MY HEART SEEN WE DATED I DON'T KNW IF I CAN STAND IT
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!What if your ex-boyfriend 'I want to talk to you'?
if you are going to be unhappy dating him then dont go out with him. also only go out with him if you really like him not because you guys dated before or he likes you.
if you really like him and you will be happy dating him and are willing to go through the ups and downs of yalls relationship then go out with him.
How to tell your ex-boyfriend you wanna be with him but you can't cause the boyfriend you got now is hitting u?
I was stupid and broke up with my boyfriend for someone else, and i wanna break up with the guy i am with now and be with my ex again. But i want to tell my ex why i can't cause i think he thinks it is just i don't wanna be with him but it ain't it is just i am scared to. Because of the temper of my new boyfriend scares me and yes he has hit me a few times but he said he was sorry... So how do i tell my ex i am being abused by this guy so maybe i can get out of this bad relationship and so he knows the truth that i do love him and only him. What should I do? should i believe this one dude that he cares for me and says he wont ever hit me again? or go back to the one i was with for 8 months and was stupid to break up with him? what do i do?How to tell your ex-boyfriend you wanna be with him but you can't cause the boyfriend you got now is hitting u?
Regardless of your desire for your old bf. You need to get rid of the abusive bf, NOW!
When you get yourself back into a normal mode of mind. Consider getting back with the old bf if you still desire to.How to tell your ex-boyfriend you wanna be with him but you can't cause the boyfriend you got now is hitting u?
leave the guy who has hit you. As we all know, he will probably hit you again and if not it will get worse. Also sounds like you like your ex waay more than your boyfriend (who abuses you).. You should tell your ex how you feel and see where it goes from there, but definately break up with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend should not hit you, and you definately deserve more from a guy.
If they hit you once, they are going to hit again and again and it will get worse, trust me I've been there and the hitting got worse until he almost killed me. Get out now, even if you don't go back with your ex. You need to tell someone what is going on before it's to late..
Go back to the one you love because hitting is not love. I do not believe in hitting any girl period. If he was here close to me, I would go beat his *** for you and he would stay away so you could go live your life with the one you really love.
Tell your ex and have your ex tell him you dont want to be with him anymore. you wont get touched but make sure you dump him sometime, your safety is in danger.
GO back to your EX!! Whoo friking cares if he said sorry. He hit youiu!! Abused you!!! That is not right!! or go back to neither, but you should tell your Ex.
you put yourself in this situation-
you need to enforce a figure that has more authority.
abusive relationships cannot be fixed just like that. Either dump this guy for your ex or buy a lot of bandaids.
dnt ever let a man put hands on you!!
are you kidding me?
go back to your ex, own up to everything and tell him that the asshole your currently with is hitting you..
no one deserves that, even if he is ';sorry'; it doesnt mean he'll stop.. you should watch the movie ';the burning bed'; its based on that, its from the 70's and has farah fawcett in it.. i think you can learn a lot from it, its based on a true story too..
First off, get out of the relationship you're in right now. I was in an abusive relationship a couple years back, and he did the same thing. He would always apologize profusely after hitting me, and I (stupidly) believed him. Don't. Behavior like this starts with hitting and apologies and can escalate to even more than that very quickly, quicker than you think. So first, get out, and you should go to a counselor and explain to them the situation just to alert them. That way, if anything happens because of the break-up, people are prepared to deal with it, because you need someone in a position of authority to know what's going on (I had to do all of this as well). In regards to going back to your ex, talk to him. You need to tell him that you left him for someone else, but now you regret it completely and you didn't realize what a good deal you had with him until you were with someone else. Unfortunately, that's a lesson that a lot of people have to learn the hard way, and tell him that that's exactly what happened to you, but now you realize what a good catch he is. He'll be hurt that you left him for someone else, and he might feel like he's ';second rate'; because you wanted to be with this other guy until he started abusing you, but you'll have to be completely honest with him and just hope for the best.
Well first, you need to tell someone that he's hitting you. You can't really believe that he won't hit you again especially if he has hit you after apologizing. If you believe him every time he does it you will never leave. You need to talk to your ex and tell him how you feel. He will be able to protect you from the guy you're with and then you two will be able to live happily ever after...at least till you want it to be over for good. Good luck.
How old are you?
You seriously need to kick the BF that is hitting you to the curb... fast... and file charges on him! You need to teach this twerp that hitting women is NOT acceptable under any circumstances. DO NOT take any more abuse... ever!
This guy will continue hitting you and the beatings will get more severe with time! The typical pattern is for him to cycle back and forth from abuse to apology and a little sweet period, followed by a more extreme beating. Stop it now!
If you are still living with your parents, talk to them NOW... tell them what is going on and have them help you file charges with the police. The police will help in any way possible, including helping you to get a restraining order against him.
If you and he are still going to school, you need to inform school officials about this so they can take steps to protect you.
After that, you need to cut him off completely. Use an answering machine or caller ID to screen calls, and you don't open the door to him.
Yes, talk to the old BF... see if you can get him back. The best way to keep the abusive bully away is to have someone else capable of standing up for you around.
If you don't wanna be with your current boyfriend, then don't. Simple as that. If you're scared of him file a PFA.
If you wanna work stuff out with your boyfriend then try for that. Look at counseling for him or something though because his temper sounds out of control.
But if you wanna be with your ex (which it really sounds like), then try to get him back.
If that doesn't work out, look for someone else.
There's always the third side of the coin. Heads, tails, and landing on the side. Life is never either/or. Always look for the third option. And no one can tell you what you should do. It's all up to you and what you really want. When you know what you really want then you'll find a way to make that happen.
Well the ex may be starting to see a pattern with you. How about break up with this new guy because he hits you. Break up with this new guy because he is an abuser. You can't break up with this guy on hopes your ex will take you back. You have to take care of yourself first. If you want your ex back then show him that you have changed. You ever get a gut feeling? Good Luck You made need counseling for your codependency. Any man that ever kicked my *** once would not get a lick in on me twice.
You need help. You need to tell a police officer about the abuse. If you can document the abuse, your boyfriend will be arrested. At that point, you can file a restraining order against him, and he will not be allowed anywhere near you again. You MUST pres charges, and go through the court process, because if you don't, your boyfriend can come back, and then he'll be even angrier. In the mean time, you need to set up a support system for yourself. Tell your parents, move back in with them if that is what it takes to get away from this guy, or go to a shelter. There is no acceptable reason for anybody to hit you, so his apology doesn't mean anything. As far as your relationship is concerned, it is over. Once you have put a safe distance between yourself and your abuser, you can start to contact your ex. You need to be sure that you don't just want your ex back because your current situation bites, so take it slow.
Regardless of your desire for your old bf. You need to get rid of the abusive bf, NOW!
When you get yourself back into a normal mode of mind. Consider getting back with the old bf if you still desire to.How to tell your ex-boyfriend you wanna be with him but you can't cause the boyfriend you got now is hitting u?
leave the guy who has hit you. As we all know, he will probably hit you again and if not it will get worse. Also sounds like you like your ex waay more than your boyfriend (who abuses you).. You should tell your ex how you feel and see where it goes from there, but definately break up with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend should not hit you, and you definately deserve more from a guy.
If they hit you once, they are going to hit again and again and it will get worse, trust me I've been there and the hitting got worse until he almost killed me. Get out now, even if you don't go back with your ex. You need to tell someone what is going on before it's to late..
Go back to the one you love because hitting is not love. I do not believe in hitting any girl period. If he was here close to me, I would go beat his *** for you and he would stay away so you could go live your life with the one you really love.
Tell your ex and have your ex tell him you dont want to be with him anymore. you wont get touched but make sure you dump him sometime, your safety is in danger.
GO back to your EX!! Whoo friking cares if he said sorry. He hit youiu!! Abused you!!! That is not right!! or go back to neither, but you should tell your Ex.
you put yourself in this situation-
you need to enforce a figure that has more authority.
abusive relationships cannot be fixed just like that. Either dump this guy for your ex or buy a lot of bandaids.
dnt ever let a man put hands on you!!
are you kidding me?
go back to your ex, own up to everything and tell him that the asshole your currently with is hitting you..
no one deserves that, even if he is ';sorry'; it doesnt mean he'll stop.. you should watch the movie ';the burning bed'; its based on that, its from the 70's and has farah fawcett in it.. i think you can learn a lot from it, its based on a true story too..
First off, get out of the relationship you're in right now. I was in an abusive relationship a couple years back, and he did the same thing. He would always apologize profusely after hitting me, and I (stupidly) believed him. Don't. Behavior like this starts with hitting and apologies and can escalate to even more than that very quickly, quicker than you think. So first, get out, and you should go to a counselor and explain to them the situation just to alert them. That way, if anything happens because of the break-up, people are prepared to deal with it, because you need someone in a position of authority to know what's going on (I had to do all of this as well). In regards to going back to your ex, talk to him. You need to tell him that you left him for someone else, but now you regret it completely and you didn't realize what a good deal you had with him until you were with someone else. Unfortunately, that's a lesson that a lot of people have to learn the hard way, and tell him that that's exactly what happened to you, but now you realize what a good catch he is. He'll be hurt that you left him for someone else, and he might feel like he's ';second rate'; because you wanted to be with this other guy until he started abusing you, but you'll have to be completely honest with him and just hope for the best.
Well first, you need to tell someone that he's hitting you. You can't really believe that he won't hit you again especially if he has hit you after apologizing. If you believe him every time he does it you will never leave. You need to talk to your ex and tell him how you feel. He will be able to protect you from the guy you're with and then you two will be able to live happily ever after...at least till you want it to be over for good. Good luck.
How old are you?
You seriously need to kick the BF that is hitting you to the curb... fast... and file charges on him! You need to teach this twerp that hitting women is NOT acceptable under any circumstances. DO NOT take any more abuse... ever!
This guy will continue hitting you and the beatings will get more severe with time! The typical pattern is for him to cycle back and forth from abuse to apology and a little sweet period, followed by a more extreme beating. Stop it now!
If you are still living with your parents, talk to them NOW... tell them what is going on and have them help you file charges with the police. The police will help in any way possible, including helping you to get a restraining order against him.
If you and he are still going to school, you need to inform school officials about this so they can take steps to protect you.
After that, you need to cut him off completely. Use an answering machine or caller ID to screen calls, and you don't open the door to him.
Yes, talk to the old BF... see if you can get him back. The best way to keep the abusive bully away is to have someone else capable of standing up for you around.
If you don't wanna be with your current boyfriend, then don't. Simple as that. If you're scared of him file a PFA.
If you wanna work stuff out with your boyfriend then try for that. Look at counseling for him or something though because his temper sounds out of control.
But if you wanna be with your ex (which it really sounds like), then try to get him back.
If that doesn't work out, look for someone else.
There's always the third side of the coin. Heads, tails, and landing on the side. Life is never either/or. Always look for the third option. And no one can tell you what you should do. It's all up to you and what you really want. When you know what you really want then you'll find a way to make that happen.
Well the ex may be starting to see a pattern with you. How about break up with this new guy because he hits you. Break up with this new guy because he is an abuser. You can't break up with this guy on hopes your ex will take you back. You have to take care of yourself first. If you want your ex back then show him that you have changed. You ever get a gut feeling? Good Luck You made need counseling for your codependency. Any man that ever kicked my *** once would not get a lick in on me twice.
You need help. You need to tell a police officer about the abuse. If you can document the abuse, your boyfriend will be arrested. At that point, you can file a restraining order against him, and he will not be allowed anywhere near you again. You MUST pres charges, and go through the court process, because if you don't, your boyfriend can come back, and then he'll be even angrier. In the mean time, you need to set up a support system for yourself. Tell your parents, move back in with them if that is what it takes to get away from this guy, or go to a shelter. There is no acceptable reason for anybody to hit you, so his apology doesn't mean anything. As far as your relationship is concerned, it is over. Once you have put a safe distance between yourself and your abuser, you can start to contact your ex. You need to be sure that you don't just want your ex back because your current situation bites, so take it slow.
How to get your ex back when he he thinks you cheated?
okay so i had this boyfriend that i was totally in love with. and for all these reason he thinks i cheated cuz of ppl talking, and i didnt. ive apologized profusly for something i didnt even do. and for a while he said it was awkward and didnt wanna talk. and now i think i see him looking at me again, the way he used to, and he said its not awkward anymore.. and idk what to do cuz i miss him so much!!! please help :[[How to get your ex back when he he thinks you cheated?
If he didn't believe you when you said that you didn't cheat, then he is a loser and it's time to move on to a more trusting guy!How to get your ex back when he he thinks you cheated?
you really shouldn't have to apologize for something you say never happened. if he won't believe you, he's not worth your time.
If he didn't believe you when you said that you didn't cheat, then he is a loser and it's time to move on to a more trusting guy!How to get your ex back when he he thinks you cheated?
you really shouldn't have to apologize for something you say never happened. if he won't believe you, he's not worth your time.
What would you do if your sister was going out with your ex-boyfriend?
My and my boyfriend of ten months just broke up a couple of months ago. I dumped him cuz my sister was crying every time she saw us together, and nothins more important then family, right? Anyway, I wasn't quite over him, but I wasn't showing anything, so they couldn't have known I was still hurting. I just heard that they are going out. I pretended to be happy for them, but really I am writhing inside. How could she do this? I kinda think it's my fault for not showing any emotion and for her not knowing she hurt me, but there is this. I talk about him all the time, so she could have guessed. I send him funny emails when I get them, and SHE IS MY SISTER. I never would have done this to her, and I know she is not me, but couldn't she see I was really hurt? I know I was somewhat insensitive when we were going out, but I did something about it. Maybe she is just trying to get me back? I don't know how to react, or what to do. Oh, yah. She is 13. He is 17.What would you do if your sister was going out with your ex-boyfriend?
First of all, why is your sister dating at 13? Why would your parents allow her to date someone that much older than she is?
Secondly, I don't agree with this situation and feel it is totally wrong. I am the youngest of 6. I have four sisters and my parents (mom especially) raised us to not become involved with anyone our siblings, relatives or friends used to be involved with because there are too many men out there to risk losing your family over. However, your sister, who is still a child doesn't seem to understand this concept.
It sounds as though it doesn't matter if you let them know you still cared or not, they would still have gone out. But ask yourself, do you really want someone who would become involved with your sister, let alone your little child sister. If he didn't have enough respect for you and how you may feel, then chica he's not worth crying any tears over or any heart break over.
Now your sister will always be your sister. I feel that you should talk to her and tell her how betrayed you feel. How would she feel if you did that to her? Somehow, your parents need to make her understand the value of family.What would you do if your sister was going out with your ex-boyfriend?
my sister was fixed up with my ex-husband, and some years later my mother ';dated'; another of my ex-husbands, He wasn't into it and when I told him others thought they were dating, he stopped going around her. neither of these bothered me, I was gone and didn't plan to go back to either of them.
Aw hell 2 tha naw, i would've been pissed the f*ck off. If my 14 year-old sis was f*ckin around wit my 17-year-old guy I'd b mad. Whoeva said the thing about revenge girl u betta do that cuz i'd trick on her *** 2
maybe u guys could have a 3some?
Wow!
It's hard to think of what I would do, because I can't even imagine this scenario!
I can't believe you let her get away with that!! Yes, family is important which is exactly why SHE should have gotten over it and moved on to someone else. Sweet Jesus. She got you good. Time for payback!
Let them be, they wouldn't have done it unless there was something special between them, be happy its her and not someone you hate
i would get a big nice weapon and knock the sh*t out of her that is yo sis!
Where are your parents???? No 13 year old girl should be going out with a 17 year old boy! Do you really think he is going to be serious about her? How old are you???
I would put hair dye in her shampoo.
He's a sleaze and should get a knee to the groin.
You just said you broke up. There must have been a reason why you broke up, or many reasons. It does not hurt you for your sister to date him. It's over for you, so stop obsessing. If this guy was important to you, you should have stayed with him!
believe me, their relationship wouldn't last too long!She is too young!You will see:)
So, wait a year or so and get even when he is of age anddating a minor...
In any other case, I would say...you broke up with him, you and he have nothing to owe each other.
Pull rank on your sister...
wow uuummm...tell ur sis off
You broke up with him because of her and now that they are going out you are upset, hey the guy is not complaining, he is the jerk here what is wrong with him?.
well.. if she is 13 and he is 17 there is a big problem .. bc not to get you worry but some teens when they hit around 17 like to well you know (boy+girl=-----%26gt; to the v ) and i am not saying that she is oing that but just to let you now..... and when you where going out and she started to cry tell her she really needs to just get over it bc she is way to young for him and i would be mad at him for going with someone so young and i am also not saying you should just walk away from him but tell him that he made sa qrong choice by going with her younger sister bc not only is she family but she is to young !! i think i have made my point
well if he got with her maybe hes not the guy that you wana be with i mean think about it 10 months then he with your sister same he cant be the guy that will make you happy if he did this also your sister maybe had a crush on him and once she got the oportunity she went for it im sorry your sis did this to u if it was me i would let them know how im feeling at least tell her. Because guys come and go and family is always family.
You chicks are crazy! Why would you two date the same guy your sisters for goodness sake you both need to dump him now especially your sister that is 13 why is she dating a seventeen year old. She should be grounded until she is 18 for that.
i think you need to bit%26amp;^ slap your little whor3 of a sister! and then turn around and do the same to him!
I'd be so madd, you didn't find out from her? That's even worse. Tell her how you feel, if that doesn't work tell your parents that she's going out with a guy 4 years older than her! REVENGE!!!!
First of all, why is your sister dating at 13? Why would your parents allow her to date someone that much older than she is?
Secondly, I don't agree with this situation and feel it is totally wrong. I am the youngest of 6. I have four sisters and my parents (mom especially) raised us to not become involved with anyone our siblings, relatives or friends used to be involved with because there are too many men out there to risk losing your family over. However, your sister, who is still a child doesn't seem to understand this concept.
It sounds as though it doesn't matter if you let them know you still cared or not, they would still have gone out. But ask yourself, do you really want someone who would become involved with your sister, let alone your little child sister. If he didn't have enough respect for you and how you may feel, then chica he's not worth crying any tears over or any heart break over.
Now your sister will always be your sister. I feel that you should talk to her and tell her how betrayed you feel. How would she feel if you did that to her? Somehow, your parents need to make her understand the value of family.What would you do if your sister was going out with your ex-boyfriend?
my sister was fixed up with my ex-husband, and some years later my mother ';dated'; another of my ex-husbands, He wasn't into it and when I told him others thought they were dating, he stopped going around her. neither of these bothered me, I was gone and didn't plan to go back to either of them.
Aw hell 2 tha naw, i would've been pissed the f*ck off. If my 14 year-old sis was f*ckin around wit my 17-year-old guy I'd b mad. Whoeva said the thing about revenge girl u betta do that cuz i'd trick on her *** 2
maybe u guys could have a 3some?
Wow!
It's hard to think of what I would do, because I can't even imagine this scenario!
I can't believe you let her get away with that!! Yes, family is important which is exactly why SHE should have gotten over it and moved on to someone else. Sweet Jesus. She got you good. Time for payback!
Let them be, they wouldn't have done it unless there was something special between them, be happy its her and not someone you hate
i would get a big nice weapon and knock the sh*t out of her that is yo sis!
Where are your parents???? No 13 year old girl should be going out with a 17 year old boy! Do you really think he is going to be serious about her? How old are you???
I would put hair dye in her shampoo.
He's a sleaze and should get a knee to the groin.
You just said you broke up. There must have been a reason why you broke up, or many reasons. It does not hurt you for your sister to date him. It's over for you, so stop obsessing. If this guy was important to you, you should have stayed with him!
believe me, their relationship wouldn't last too long!She is too young!You will see:)
So, wait a year or so and get even when he is of age anddating a minor...
In any other case, I would say...you broke up with him, you and he have nothing to owe each other.
Pull rank on your sister...
wow uuummm...tell ur sis off
You broke up with him because of her and now that they are going out you are upset, hey the guy is not complaining, he is the jerk here what is wrong with him?.
well.. if she is 13 and he is 17 there is a big problem .. bc not to get you worry but some teens when they hit around 17 like to well you know (boy+girl=-----%26gt; to the v ) and i am not saying that she is oing that but just to let you now..... and when you where going out and she started to cry tell her she really needs to just get over it bc she is way to young for him and i would be mad at him for going with someone so young and i am also not saying you should just walk away from him but tell him that he made sa qrong choice by going with her younger sister bc not only is she family but she is to young !! i think i have made my point
well if he got with her maybe hes not the guy that you wana be with i mean think about it 10 months then he with your sister same he cant be the guy that will make you happy if he did this also your sister maybe had a crush on him and once she got the oportunity she went for it im sorry your sis did this to u if it was me i would let them know how im feeling at least tell her. Because guys come and go and family is always family.
You chicks are crazy! Why would you two date the same guy your sisters for goodness sake you both need to dump him now especially your sister that is 13 why is she dating a seventeen year old. She should be grounded until she is 18 for that.
i think you need to bit%26amp;^ slap your little whor3 of a sister! and then turn around and do the same to him!
I'd be so madd, you didn't find out from her? That's even worse. Tell her how you feel, if that doesn't work tell your parents that she's going out with a guy 4 years older than her! REVENGE!!!!
Women: what would you think if your ex-boyfriend called you up or wrote you a letter unexpectedly?
I broke up with my girlfriend in June and I still think about her almost every day. We dated for a few months and I broke up with her primarily because I didn't want to be in a long distance relationship. We tried to stay friends and write back and forth...personally I secretly hoped that we would eventually get back together...but at the end of the summer she sent me a letter saying it would be her last one and that she needed to move on. I thought that would be a good idea at the time, but I still can't stop thinking about her. I want to write her another letter and tell her how special she was and is to me, but I'm afraid that she might have moved on and that I might just be opening up an old wound. I really don't want to hurt her, but I'm afraid that I'll never meet a girl as special as her. How would you feel if an old boyfriend told you he still cared about you months after he broke up with you?Women: what would you think if your ex-boyfriend called you up or wrote you a letter unexpectedly?
Surprisingly..I just broke up with my boyfriend for 4 months now...and personally..if he wrote me a letter telling me how he feels about me...it would definately bring tears to my eyes..and it would be the most sweetest thing that my ex-bf does for me...but that's because i still have feelings for him. I'm like u...i can't let them go yet and i still think about him.. but it really depends on the person...some people might change...considering they moved on..so they might not care about u..so they might hurt u even more...but if they are a caring person...then i think u should write the letter...even if she did move on...she probably have good words for u...and mayb even help u through it? If she moved on..then mayb she can be ur friend now....considering...she has someone else in her heart...if she hasn't...then mayb u guys have a chance. In the end...you never know unless u try..and sometimes it's worth trying even tho u might open up an old wound. And mayb after you try..u can live ur life knowing that you did all that you can..instead of just sitting there and letting ur feelings go unnoticed. Hope I helped...happy new years..and good luck with everything!Women: what would you think if your ex-boyfriend called you up or wrote you a letter unexpectedly?
i probably vud not belive him,how cude u trust a person again who himself broke up vid u
That is so sweet, you have nothing at all to loose to try to contact her. My only warning and words of experience would be if she doesn't respond back to you take it as though she doesn't care and doesn't want to talk to you. She more than likely has another man in her life. It really makes me sad to see all these posts of people in love or that really like the other and the other not having enough curtosy as a decent human being to be respectful ( two wrongs don't make a right, when your grown up you realize that) enough to send back a message saying something. So my advice is go for it because Im assuming this is a feeling you have for just her and no one else. It's rare to have that so act on it before its too late. Oh Good Luck! I really hope it works for you.
i'd probably be like wtf why is he trying to get back with me
too bad he lost me when he had teh chance
Write her a letter. If you call her, she'll feel pressure to make a decision quickly, and might express her surprise as anger. If you write to her, she'll have some time to think about your words and reply when she feels it best.
The worst case scenario is that she'll just say she's moved on, and at least then you'll know for sure. Go ahead and contact her, otherwise you'll just keep wondering.
I would wonder what he wanted from me, or if I were the one who had ended the relationship, I would think it was kind of sad and pathetic that he just couldn't take a hint. Maybe if you could ask one of her friends if she's seeing anyone before you write to her, it would give you a clue if she was missing you the way you're missing her.
Surprisingly..I just broke up with my boyfriend for 4 months now...and personally..if he wrote me a letter telling me how he feels about me...it would definately bring tears to my eyes..and it would be the most sweetest thing that my ex-bf does for me...but that's because i still have feelings for him. I'm like u...i can't let them go yet and i still think about him.. but it really depends on the person...some people might change...considering they moved on..so they might not care about u..so they might hurt u even more...but if they are a caring person...then i think u should write the letter...even if she did move on...she probably have good words for u...and mayb even help u through it? If she moved on..then mayb she can be ur friend now....considering...she has someone else in her heart...if she hasn't...then mayb u guys have a chance. In the end...you never know unless u try..and sometimes it's worth trying even tho u might open up an old wound. And mayb after you try..u can live ur life knowing that you did all that you can..instead of just sitting there and letting ur feelings go unnoticed. Hope I helped...happy new years..and good luck with everything!Women: what would you think if your ex-boyfriend called you up or wrote you a letter unexpectedly?
i probably vud not belive him,how cude u trust a person again who himself broke up vid u
That is so sweet, you have nothing at all to loose to try to contact her. My only warning and words of experience would be if she doesn't respond back to you take it as though she doesn't care and doesn't want to talk to you. She more than likely has another man in her life. It really makes me sad to see all these posts of people in love or that really like the other and the other not having enough curtosy as a decent human being to be respectful ( two wrongs don't make a right, when your grown up you realize that) enough to send back a message saying something. So my advice is go for it because Im assuming this is a feeling you have for just her and no one else. It's rare to have that so act on it before its too late. Oh Good Luck! I really hope it works for you.
i'd probably be like wtf why is he trying to get back with me
too bad he lost me when he had teh chance
Write her a letter. If you call her, she'll feel pressure to make a decision quickly, and might express her surprise as anger. If you write to her, she'll have some time to think about your words and reply when she feels it best.
The worst case scenario is that she'll just say she's moved on, and at least then you'll know for sure. Go ahead and contact her, otherwise you'll just keep wondering.
I would wonder what he wanted from me, or if I were the one who had ended the relationship, I would think it was kind of sad and pathetic that he just couldn't take a hint. Maybe if you could ask one of her friends if she's seeing anyone before you write to her, it would give you a clue if she was missing you the way you're missing her.
Girls: taking back ex boyfriend? Would you?
If you don't want to read the whole thing, just read first two paragraphs and answer from that. :)
A lot of girls break up with their bf even though they still love them when the bf doesn't seem to understand their needs and over time they feel frustrated, disappointed, and are tired of feeling sad about the relationship. My thought is that, despite still being in love, their heart becomes weary. Even though when together they feel really happy, there is obviously more time spent throughout the week without the bf and in this alone time the girl feels sad and lonely even though she has the bf because she feels he doesn't understand her, really care personally about her, or is taking her for granted instead of thinking of her as his special someone.
To girls who have been through this, does the above ring true to you? Is there more, or something else going on in your mind/heart as well? I admit I neglected her and the relationship over time but know I can make the changes I need because I do still love her and never want her to feel this way again. I think she's conflicted but too tired to keep trying on her own and also her pride won't let her reconsider. To anyone who can relate, any thoughts? I guess my thought is that under these circumstances, the girl still has feelings for the guy but her reasoning (she's been thinking about why she feels this way) and her pride (not wanting to take back an ex and also not going back on her judgment) as well as being scared of going back cover up whatever feelings are/were there, so if I can show her the chemistry we first had and show/prove to her I have changed, it might work. Maybe I'm wrong?
It's been about 2 months since the break-up. Right after the breakup, I made the mistake of trying to convince her to reconsider, but then I gave her space/time and contacted her via text a few weeks later. I had left a thoughtful letter on her car and texted to let her know and she seemed to appreciate it and she told me about the stress at her new job, kind of like the way we used to text back and forth before. But then when I left another small note and gift on her car the following week, she texted back saying I didn't need to keep doing that and that I should try and meet new people and that she wasn't sure if she could feel for me the same way again and that she was sorry. But she agreed to meet up for coffee next week.
I'm thinking of just being honest with her but not begging her to come back and just explain I know how she must have felt during our relationship, would like another chance, but also realize that's more emotional baggage for her when she's already had to worry about whether staying in this relationship was the right decision for a few months now. So that if her heart is too weary, maybe we can just meet up as friends a few months down the line when she's managed to sort through her feelings. Is this how I should approach next week's meeting over coffee? I don't think she'll come running back into my arms right now because the frustration/sadness/disappointment she's felt seems to be strong enough that right now she wants to move on, but I'd like to keep the possibility of getting back together down the line open - although I will be sure to get on with my life, too. We were together for 6 months so she may have felt sad for a while - maybe it's too late? If I try hard to show her I still care and can change without pestering her, will that only push her away or help her see I'm genuine? Any thoughts regarding where she's at emotionally right now and what I can do would be helpful. Thank you in advance.Girls: taking back ex boyfriend? Would you?
Do not listen to Sarah. A TV show is a terrible source for relationship advice. Those are fictional characters written to be dramatic.
Do what you want. If you still love him, but he needs some work, then tell him what he needs to do and tell him about your feelings.Girls: taking back ex boyfriend? Would you?
It sounds like she's trying to move on for the most part. But with you still contacting her, leaving notes and what not. She may feel guilty that you're trying. That's why she's even meeting you fir coffee. Otherwise, it would be ';out of sight, out of mind';.
Meet for coffee to get closure on this relationship (sounds like what she really wants). Wish her all the best, and move on.
weird.....my x and i are going through the same thing right now...how weird would it be if your the x lol
WOW
Watch Friends.
Ross and Rachel particularly.
Seriously, I was that girl and I liked the chase the guy was giving me because its was showing me he cared and I liked the attention he was giving me. I felt I was important in his life when I thought he didn't care. I also felt he would be there whenever I wanted, so I let him be the one too want me back and realize his mistake. Its kind of like an ego boost in a way. Honestly if a guy throws himself at me I lose interest because I know I got them and there is no challenge. Go for coffee and just talk but DON'T throw yourself at her. Just go and tell her you still have feelings for her but the ball is in her court and tell her to think about it. But tell her, that she knows your feelings and you will give her some space. She will come back Most likely. But at the same time, I know you care about her, but don't close yourself off to other people either. Good luck!!! :):)
Hm, How strange, my ex and I are going through the same exact thing.
Anyway. I think you should start a conversation with her and bring it up like ';hey we need to talk'; kindof thing. Usually like a serious talk. Just tell her you want her to be honest and then tell her how you feel. It should work.
Best of luck
-Cheyenne -.-myspace icons pale skin
A lot of girls break up with their bf even though they still love them when the bf doesn't seem to understand their needs and over time they feel frustrated, disappointed, and are tired of feeling sad about the relationship. My thought is that, despite still being in love, their heart becomes weary. Even though when together they feel really happy, there is obviously more time spent throughout the week without the bf and in this alone time the girl feels sad and lonely even though she has the bf because she feels he doesn't understand her, really care personally about her, or is taking her for granted instead of thinking of her as his special someone.
To girls who have been through this, does the above ring true to you? Is there more, or something else going on in your mind/heart as well? I admit I neglected her and the relationship over time but know I can make the changes I need because I do still love her and never want her to feel this way again. I think she's conflicted but too tired to keep trying on her own and also her pride won't let her reconsider. To anyone who can relate, any thoughts? I guess my thought is that under these circumstances, the girl still has feelings for the guy but her reasoning (she's been thinking about why she feels this way) and her pride (not wanting to take back an ex and also not going back on her judgment) as well as being scared of going back cover up whatever feelings are/were there, so if I can show her the chemistry we first had and show/prove to her I have changed, it might work. Maybe I'm wrong?
It's been about 2 months since the break-up. Right after the breakup, I made the mistake of trying to convince her to reconsider, but then I gave her space/time and contacted her via text a few weeks later. I had left a thoughtful letter on her car and texted to let her know and she seemed to appreciate it and she told me about the stress at her new job, kind of like the way we used to text back and forth before. But then when I left another small note and gift on her car the following week, she texted back saying I didn't need to keep doing that and that I should try and meet new people and that she wasn't sure if she could feel for me the same way again and that she was sorry. But she agreed to meet up for coffee next week.
I'm thinking of just being honest with her but not begging her to come back and just explain I know how she must have felt during our relationship, would like another chance, but also realize that's more emotional baggage for her when she's already had to worry about whether staying in this relationship was the right decision for a few months now. So that if her heart is too weary, maybe we can just meet up as friends a few months down the line when she's managed to sort through her feelings. Is this how I should approach next week's meeting over coffee? I don't think she'll come running back into my arms right now because the frustration/sadness/disappointment she's felt seems to be strong enough that right now she wants to move on, but I'd like to keep the possibility of getting back together down the line open - although I will be sure to get on with my life, too. We were together for 6 months so she may have felt sad for a while - maybe it's too late? If I try hard to show her I still care and can change without pestering her, will that only push her away or help her see I'm genuine? Any thoughts regarding where she's at emotionally right now and what I can do would be helpful. Thank you in advance.Girls: taking back ex boyfriend? Would you?
Do not listen to Sarah. A TV show is a terrible source for relationship advice. Those are fictional characters written to be dramatic.
Do what you want. If you still love him, but he needs some work, then tell him what he needs to do and tell him about your feelings.Girls: taking back ex boyfriend? Would you?
It sounds like she's trying to move on for the most part. But with you still contacting her, leaving notes and what not. She may feel guilty that you're trying. That's why she's even meeting you fir coffee. Otherwise, it would be ';out of sight, out of mind';.
Meet for coffee to get closure on this relationship (sounds like what she really wants). Wish her all the best, and move on.
weird.....my x and i are going through the same thing right now...how weird would it be if your the x lol
WOW
Watch Friends.
Ross and Rachel particularly.
Seriously, I was that girl and I liked the chase the guy was giving me because its was showing me he cared and I liked the attention he was giving me. I felt I was important in his life when I thought he didn't care. I also felt he would be there whenever I wanted, so I let him be the one too want me back and realize his mistake. Its kind of like an ego boost in a way. Honestly if a guy throws himself at me I lose interest because I know I got them and there is no challenge. Go for coffee and just talk but DON'T throw yourself at her. Just go and tell her you still have feelings for her but the ball is in her court and tell her to think about it. But tell her, that she knows your feelings and you will give her some space. She will come back Most likely. But at the same time, I know you care about her, but don't close yourself off to other people either. Good luck!!! :):)
Hm, How strange, my ex and I are going through the same exact thing.
Anyway. I think you should start a conversation with her and bring it up like ';hey we need to talk'; kindof thing. Usually like a serious talk. Just tell her you want her to be honest and then tell her how you feel. It should work.
Best of luck
-Cheyenne -.-
Would you tell your ex-boyfriend that you think about him all the time? Does that mean I miss him?
Im married and have two wonderfull baby boys, I love my husband however I recently ran into my ex boyfriend after almost 8 years of no contact. We dated for 7 years and truly loved each other, he tried so hard to win me back but my mind was set. I thought for sure we would get married but thought he was unstable and not certain what he wanted in life so I had to leave him. Hardest thing I had to do because he was a very good person whom I cared about very much. I think about him often till this day and hope he is happy. He was my first real love (19-26). Seeing him brought back all these memories and I can't imagine what he must be thinking, he had said he was doing well and couldn't say much more because he was so shocked to see me. I asked him how he was and then I said I think about him all the time. Might he mistake that with ';I miss you'; I know when I think about someone all the time its because I miss them. Do I miss him, Im married and happy. please help.Would you tell your ex-boyfriend that you think about him all the time? Does that mean I miss him?
I too am married with kids, but a part of my heart will always belong to someone else. It's hard to not think of someone whom you had deep feelings for. Especially if the relationship ended not because you didn't love each other, but because of circumstances. As you said, you are happily married. Hold him dear to your heart and wish him the best for the future.Would you tell your ex-boyfriend that you think about him all the time? Does that mean I miss him?
STOP TALKING TO HIM.
this is a very tough situation but its ok to miss the past
i kno i do
but you have kids and a great husband already
i think you should just tell your ex that you are sorry and that you want him to be happy bc if you really love him or loved, then it shouldnt matter who he is with just as long as they are happy.
wow! well u cnat help ur feelings. but u have a family, would u give that all up to go back in time and go w/ u ex?
think about it ;)
Understood, been there done that. Look if u r happy enjoy ur happiness. Dont let thoughts of him screw with that, thats playing with fire. I mean its ok to remember things about ur fisrt love and natural, but dont let it consume ur time and mind. Mainly u need closeure to him. U need to know hes ok and thats all. If he missunderstood u and trys to contact u let him know polightly that u are happy and want to maybe be friends. (check with hubby if u want) but thinking of him is ok , but if u r really happy.... dont let ur thoughts stray, thats how affairs happen.
I too am married with kids, but a part of my heart will always belong to someone else. It's hard to not think of someone whom you had deep feelings for. Especially if the relationship ended not because you didn't love each other, but because of circumstances. As you said, you are happily married. Hold him dear to your heart and wish him the best for the future.Would you tell your ex-boyfriend that you think about him all the time? Does that mean I miss him?
STOP TALKING TO HIM.
this is a very tough situation but its ok to miss the past
i kno i do
but you have kids and a great husband already
i think you should just tell your ex that you are sorry and that you want him to be happy bc if you really love him or loved, then it shouldnt matter who he is with just as long as they are happy.
wow! well u cnat help ur feelings. but u have a family, would u give that all up to go back in time and go w/ u ex?
think about it ;)
Understood, been there done that. Look if u r happy enjoy ur happiness. Dont let thoughts of him screw with that, thats playing with fire. I mean its ok to remember things about ur fisrt love and natural, but dont let it consume ur time and mind. Mainly u need closeure to him. U need to know hes ok and thats all. If he missunderstood u and trys to contact u let him know polightly that u are happy and want to maybe be friends. (check with hubby if u want) but thinking of him is ok , but if u r really happy.... dont let ur thoughts stray, thats how affairs happen.
How to get my ex-boyfriend back?
my ex-boyfriend just broke up with me two days ago
by sending me a text message saying he wants to be single
then i found out that he cheated on me with another girl
that girl is his new girlfriend now
he always told me that he would love me and that im making me so happy blah...
oh yah and that he never wants to lose me or never wants to break up
well but he did.
now i want him back
ok not really
i want that he realizes that he made a huge mistake by breaking up with me
so i want him to want me back
that i can be like well you had your chance!
know what i want/mean??
thanks for your help!!
ps.we have been together for 3 weeks,we go to highschool but im 2 years olderHow to get my ex-boyfriend back?
You're better off forgetting about this loser and moving on, honestly. He's a two-faced liar who cheated on you and in due course he'll do the same to his new GF, too. People like that have no conscience and you'll only upset yourself with your attempts to try to get him back so you can reject him.
The revenge fantasy is a nice idea, but that's all it is, I'm afraid. Better by far that you move on and try to find a guy who genuinely cares about you.How to get my ex-boyfriend back?
Why give him so much attention after what he's done to you? That was an extreme slap in the face for you. First he couldn't even break up with you in person? He dumped you via text messages? And then didn't even tell you the truth? He broke up with you - thereby choosing the girl who he cheated on you with over you and you want to make him suffer by makin' him think you want him back? What has he done, thru-out this break up, to even give you one single clue that he'd actually care?
You won't succeed in this because he's picked who he wants. You're only goin' to make yourself look like a clingy idiot. Make him real sorry for what he's done - move on. Move on and show him what he's done hasn't effected you one way or another. Give him absolutely no justification whatsoever and then he'll realize what he lost.
by sending me a text message saying he wants to be single
then i found out that he cheated on me with another girl
that girl is his new girlfriend now
he always told me that he would love me and that im making me so happy blah...
oh yah and that he never wants to lose me or never wants to break up
well but he did.
now i want him back
ok not really
i want that he realizes that he made a huge mistake by breaking up with me
so i want him to want me back
that i can be like well you had your chance!
know what i want/mean??
thanks for your help!!
ps.we have been together for 3 weeks,we go to highschool but im 2 years olderHow to get my ex-boyfriend back?
You're better off forgetting about this loser and moving on, honestly. He's a two-faced liar who cheated on you and in due course he'll do the same to his new GF, too. People like that have no conscience and you'll only upset yourself with your attempts to try to get him back so you can reject him.
The revenge fantasy is a nice idea, but that's all it is, I'm afraid. Better by far that you move on and try to find a guy who genuinely cares about you.How to get my ex-boyfriend back?
Why give him so much attention after what he's done to you? That was an extreme slap in the face for you. First he couldn't even break up with you in person? He dumped you via text messages? And then didn't even tell you the truth? He broke up with you - thereby choosing the girl who he cheated on you with over you and you want to make him suffer by makin' him think you want him back? What has he done, thru-out this break up, to even give you one single clue that he'd actually care?
You won't succeed in this because he's picked who he wants. You're only goin' to make yourself look like a clingy idiot. Make him real sorry for what he's done - move on. Move on and show him what he's done hasn't effected you one way or another. Give him absolutely no justification whatsoever and then he'll realize what he lost.
How to get your ex girlfriend love back?
I really messed things up with her, two years on and off relationship. Never realized howmuch i love her. How can i find a way to get her back?
Note: She has a boyfriend now and i havent talked to her in a couple of months because of an arguement we had,How to get your ex girlfriend love back?
write her a letter and mail it to her telling her how much you missed her and that you are sorry to tell her this even though you know she have a bf, tell her that you are happy for her for having a nice bg and such.. don't try to ask her to get back so soon, it will just be annoying to her and then her new boyfriend is going to kick your ***... if you love her and you respect her and you know you did wrong. you would just want the best for her.. if she still loves you, she will come back eventually.How to get your ex girlfriend love back?
do whatever feels right
Note: She has a boyfriend now and i havent talked to her in a couple of months because of an arguement we had,How to get your ex girlfriend love back?
write her a letter and mail it to her telling her how much you missed her and that you are sorry to tell her this even though you know she have a bf, tell her that you are happy for her for having a nice bg and such.. don't try to ask her to get back so soon, it will just be annoying to her and then her new boyfriend is going to kick your ***... if you love her and you respect her and you know you did wrong. you would just want the best for her.. if she still loves you, she will come back eventually.How to get your ex girlfriend love back?
do whatever feels right
Can you be friends with your ex boyfriend? & how do you tell your parents you still want 2 be friends with him?
My boyfriend and I broke up around this time last night. We decided today that we would still hang out and be friends. Sorta like in Drake and Josh when Josh and Mindy broke up, the next day they were hanging out, ya know? and then they got back together a few episodes later. Yupp, just like that.
So is it ok to be friends with an ex boyfriend and still hang out? And how do I tell my parents that we are still going to hang out just as friends? I think after Today when they found out we broke up, they don't like him anymore( i am not 100% if they really hate him or not =/), and neither do my sisters, and if we get back together they might be disappointed in me.
My boyfriend did tell me it was possible we can get back together though, just not right now. He wants to remain civil with me as friends, and he promised he won't tell people bad things about me when they ask why we broke up. i promised him the same. So we are going to hang out as friends soon, and who knows, we'll take things from there. But is this ok?Can you be friends with your ex boyfriend? %26amp; how do you tell your parents you still want 2 be friends with him?
my ex boyfriend is my best friend and my parents have learned to expect it and he acutally still comes over on hoildays we are better as friends hopefully your parents are as cool as mine but then I am a adult so what could they sayCan you be friends with your ex boyfriend? %26amp; how do you tell your parents you still want 2 be friends with him?
Being friends with you ex is NEVER a good idea...and if you broke up, why would you want to get back together? There must be a reason you broke up, a reason you guys decided that it isn't working...why break up at all if you plan on getting back together?
Honestly my suggestion is to not have any contact with each other for at least a month, if not more...and to move on!
No, dont. The reason he says he might want to get back with you is so he can keep tabs on you, and make sure you don't date anyone else. Give it a few months, if he still wants to be friends fine but it is too soon. You have feelings for him and he'll take advantage of that hes a man and thats what they do. Anyone who is willing to risk loosing you by breaking up with you isnt worth your time. I just went through nearly this exact situation. I found out that he lied about a lot of things. I'm hoping your situation is different than that. But listen he'll never know what he's missing if your still hanging around. He doesn't deserve you if he's willing to risk losing you. Take some time. you can be civil without being friends. being friends hurts more then anything because the wound never closes. give it some heal time and then see.
So is it ok to be friends with an ex boyfriend and still hang out? And how do I tell my parents that we are still going to hang out just as friends? I think after Today when they found out we broke up, they don't like him anymore( i am not 100% if they really hate him or not =/), and neither do my sisters, and if we get back together they might be disappointed in me.
My boyfriend did tell me it was possible we can get back together though, just not right now. He wants to remain civil with me as friends, and he promised he won't tell people bad things about me when they ask why we broke up. i promised him the same. So we are going to hang out as friends soon, and who knows, we'll take things from there. But is this ok?Can you be friends with your ex boyfriend? %26amp; how do you tell your parents you still want 2 be friends with him?
my ex boyfriend is my best friend and my parents have learned to expect it and he acutally still comes over on hoildays we are better as friends hopefully your parents are as cool as mine but then I am a adult so what could they sayCan you be friends with your ex boyfriend? %26amp; how do you tell your parents you still want 2 be friends with him?
Being friends with you ex is NEVER a good idea...and if you broke up, why would you want to get back together? There must be a reason you broke up, a reason you guys decided that it isn't working...why break up at all if you plan on getting back together?
Honestly my suggestion is to not have any contact with each other for at least a month, if not more...and to move on!
No, dont. The reason he says he might want to get back with you is so he can keep tabs on you, and make sure you don't date anyone else. Give it a few months, if he still wants to be friends fine but it is too soon. You have feelings for him and he'll take advantage of that hes a man and thats what they do. Anyone who is willing to risk loosing you by breaking up with you isnt worth your time. I just went through nearly this exact situation. I found out that he lied about a lot of things. I'm hoping your situation is different than that. But listen he'll never know what he's missing if your still hanging around. He doesn't deserve you if he's willing to risk losing you. Take some time. you can be civil without being friends. being friends hurts more then anything because the wound never closes. give it some heal time and then see.
How do you get your ex boyfriend to call you?
ok i miss my ex he broke up with me because we never see each other but i keep on regretting it and i dont want to get over him i want to get back together
ps. i never see him not in school or any where so i have to call himHow do you get your ex boyfriend to call you?
Girl , move on . It's for the best.myspace icons pale skin
ps. i never see him not in school or any where so i have to call himHow do you get your ex boyfriend to call you?
Girl , move on . It's for the best.
How do you tell your ex boyfriend your still in love with him and you want to work it out?
we broke up and i could never get over him and i really want him back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!How do you tell your ex boyfriend your still in love with him and you want to work it out?
if he is in a current realtionship don't, if he isn't just say you really made a mistake and you want him back (if you broke up with him) if he broke up with you, sorryHow do you tell your ex boyfriend your still in love with him and you want to work it out?
ummmhhh not yet...
Tell him ur stil in love with him and u want him back lol. But really, if he broke with u dere's a reason for it. U cant make him love u and if he get back with u just because u want him to and he has no feeling behind it, then it wont be a gd relationship, it'll be a pit one which always has problems. Its beetter to find someone else :(
Well, you can make it hard, or you can make it easy.
Find a way to express your interest that will be good for you. Don't try to imitate some movie or something.
For example, calling and ';explaining'; what you feel is not always the best solution. What about going out with friends and flirting with him like for the first time (it happened once in the past, why not again?)...
Anyway, for further ';education'; have a look:
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dk what can i say ? have fun
It's me. I don't want to work it out. Quit ******* bothering me, you pencilneck stalker. I hate your family and everything about you.
Well why did you make up? But just talk to him, if you guys are still friends with each other. Just tell him that you haven't really been able to get over him and you want to work on it. It's really simple.
Tell him how you feel and take it one step at of time but if he doesn't want YOU BACk - just let him go.
well this one i have experience on. i was with my guy 4 two years and we broke up and i really really missed him so i played it cool. i first gave it some time. yeah i know that was really hard to do. i wanted to call him all the time but i never did. i did something else to keep my mind off of him. after about a month i sent him an email. basically i said hey wats up and asked how he was doing. when he responded i asked if we could go and get some coffee sometime this week and he said sure. from than on we started hanging out more and eventually he asked me back out. so maybe try doing something similar to that. don't be obsessive over him though because he will think you're a freak and it wont be pretty. just play it cool and things should unravel.
well it depends. if he broke up w/u then dnt cus he might of hav left u 4 some1 else an hes jus not tellin u.(if thats tha case u should kick him in tha teeth cus thats being a mega jerk). jus talk 2 him, if he doesnt wanna talk then 4get it. i kno its sounds hard and that u really want 2 be w/him and u feel like if u dnt hav that person u wanna die. but ever1 in tha whole world deserves 2 be w/ some1 who loves them bck. but who knos mayb he feels tha same about u. we guys dnt like 2 show emotions.
if he is in a current realtionship don't, if he isn't just say you really made a mistake and you want him back (if you broke up with him) if he broke up with you, sorryHow do you tell your ex boyfriend your still in love with him and you want to work it out?
ummmhhh not yet...
Tell him ur stil in love with him and u want him back lol. But really, if he broke with u dere's a reason for it. U cant make him love u and if he get back with u just because u want him to and he has no feeling behind it, then it wont be a gd relationship, it'll be a pit one which always has problems. Its beetter to find someone else :(
Well, you can make it hard, or you can make it easy.
Find a way to express your interest that will be good for you. Don't try to imitate some movie or something.
For example, calling and ';explaining'; what you feel is not always the best solution. What about going out with friends and flirting with him like for the first time (it happened once in the past, why not again?)...
Anyway, for further ';education'; have a look:
http://genuineproductreviews.com/how_to_鈥?/a>
dk what can i say ? have fun
It's me. I don't want to work it out. Quit ******* bothering me, you pencilneck stalker. I hate your family and everything about you.
Well why did you make up? But just talk to him, if you guys are still friends with each other. Just tell him that you haven't really been able to get over him and you want to work on it. It's really simple.
Tell him how you feel and take it one step at of time but if he doesn't want YOU BACk - just let him go.
well this one i have experience on. i was with my guy 4 two years and we broke up and i really really missed him so i played it cool. i first gave it some time. yeah i know that was really hard to do. i wanted to call him all the time but i never did. i did something else to keep my mind off of him. after about a month i sent him an email. basically i said hey wats up and asked how he was doing. when he responded i asked if we could go and get some coffee sometime this week and he said sure. from than on we started hanging out more and eventually he asked me back out. so maybe try doing something similar to that. don't be obsessive over him though because he will think you're a freak and it wont be pretty. just play it cool and things should unravel.
well it depends. if he broke up w/u then dnt cus he might of hav left u 4 some1 else an hes jus not tellin u.(if thats tha case u should kick him in tha teeth cus thats being a mega jerk). jus talk 2 him, if he doesnt wanna talk then 4get it. i kno its sounds hard and that u really want 2 be w/him and u feel like if u dnt hav that person u wanna die. but ever1 in tha whole world deserves 2 be w/ some1 who loves them bck. but who knos mayb he feels tha same about u. we guys dnt like 2 show emotions.
What do you do when you hear your ex-boyfriend has been badly injured...?
Okay so he's not dying but he's fractured a lot of bones and I still really miss him and care about him. The thing is we haven't spoken since he broke up with me which was about a month ago and since then he has gotten back with his ex (but i'm not sure if they're still together). Do I ask him how he is and forget my feelings or should I just stop worrying about him? It just got me thinking that it could have been worse and I would have never got the chance to see or speak to him again.What do you do when you hear your ex-boyfriend has been badly injured...?
I would forget about your feelings but send a card and some candy or something he likes.
then take it from there after that.
good luckWhat do you do when you hear your ex-boyfriend has been badly injured...?
be mature about it and just ask him how he is
if his girlfriend gets mad then shes just being dumb
I would forget about your feelings but send a card and some candy or something he likes.
then take it from there after that.
good luckWhat do you do when you hear your ex-boyfriend has been badly injured...?
be mature about it and just ask him how he is
if his girlfriend gets mad then shes just being dumb
How do you know if your ex will ever come back?
My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 6 weeks ago. We had alot of fighting over comittment and selfishness in the relationship. After being together for over 3 years we spent alot of it having good times, but the bad fights were always over the same things. I have a college education, a great job, wonderful friends and family, but I cant fill the void left by him. He says he still loves me and that he would never let any other girl be the reason for us to never get back together. He just doesn't feel like he should have a relationship in his life right now. He says it's not that he doesn't want to be with me he just doesn't want any romantic relationship. He tells me I need to look at it right now as a permanent thing, but I just can't when there is still so much love there. I just wish I had answers. What do y'all think, will he ever come back?How do you know if your ex will ever come back?
my ex just left me, that smurfing ho we had been in a relationship for 4 years was renting a house, which she stuck me with and i just found out from her son from a previous marriage she's moving into a apartment with her new boyfriend. i could just............... just move on apparently they have.
NJB you are so so right!!!How do you know if your ex will ever come back?
Stop waiting for some creep to come running back to you. You sounds successfull, keep busy and he will fade away slowly. Healing comes painfully but it will be worth it. Leave him in the past because that is just where he belongs!
Be glad you found out now, can you imagine what it would be like if you married him, and one day he decided he wanted to take a little break.... I mean, come on?!!
He said it himself, to look at it as if it's permanent....
ummm yeah right?!!
if the love still lingers then there is a possibility that he'll come back.just give him time and let him be ready.look at it as a time that you can grow as a person and be independent for awhile.
Why would you care? I mean really! If they leave once, they'll do it again...and maybe only after you're married and have a kid!
Old rule of thumb: Never go back.
Trust me!
this guy has commitment issues. he want's you all to himself without ever commiting to the relationship. it's time for you to move on.
I would not dwell on it too much. Just pray for him, and if god wants to bring him back to you then he will. But in the meantime get out there and meet new people. Let people know you are single and see what happens. You have been dating so long people probably think you are taken, and not available. His not wanting to commit or resolve repetitive conflicts with you are bad signs. Partners should grow in their relationships and find ways to resolve their arguments in a way that is satisfactory to both partners. But if you keep fighting over the same issues and you never grow then you will always fight over those particular issues because neither of you is willing to submit to the other.
I would go out with your friends and meet new people and see if God brings you a man that will fill your desire for a loving partner. Someone who knows how to commit and someone who knows how to resolve an argument with you in a way that makes you feel secure with your partner. When I have a fight with a friend, if that person is important to me we will talk about it and try to come to an understanding. But if you dont love that person, than that argument will drive a wedge between the two of you and end your friendship.
im in the same boat as you.....i REALLY w ish i could help ya out there
I think he wont.......but you sound so itelligent that Im sure you are going to be ok. Ive had my heart broke and ya know I was better off afterwards. My life changed for the better and I never looked back. Im not sure of your faith but if you are a Christian then look to the God for answers. And ya know what...........my ex now drives a 1977 beat up Chevy!!! LOL
Sounds like he will not come back. If he is not ready for commitment then find someone who will be committed to you. Sounds like he might be interested in another girl. That is the reason guys say things like ';I am not ready for a relationship right now.';
Sweetie...no man is worth your tears. I know that's easier said than done. Just know that you should move on with your life, and that you don't need to have him around. If he doesn't want a romantic relationship, you don't need a friendship as it's only going to hurt you in the long run (example--a few months he may have a new girl in his life...).
You can get over this with the help of your friends/family. Just remember this too; no man is worth your tears, and the one that is worth it, won't make you cry.
my ex just left me, that smurfing ho we had been in a relationship for 4 years was renting a house, which she stuck me with and i just found out from her son from a previous marriage she's moving into a apartment with her new boyfriend. i could just............... just move on apparently they have.
NJB you are so so right!!!How do you know if your ex will ever come back?
Stop waiting for some creep to come running back to you. You sounds successfull, keep busy and he will fade away slowly. Healing comes painfully but it will be worth it. Leave him in the past because that is just where he belongs!
Be glad you found out now, can you imagine what it would be like if you married him, and one day he decided he wanted to take a little break.... I mean, come on?!!
He said it himself, to look at it as if it's permanent....
ummm yeah right?!!
if the love still lingers then there is a possibility that he'll come back.just give him time and let him be ready.look at it as a time that you can grow as a person and be independent for awhile.
Why would you care? I mean really! If they leave once, they'll do it again...and maybe only after you're married and have a kid!
Old rule of thumb: Never go back.
Trust me!
this guy has commitment issues. he want's you all to himself without ever commiting to the relationship. it's time for you to move on.
I would not dwell on it too much. Just pray for him, and if god wants to bring him back to you then he will. But in the meantime get out there and meet new people. Let people know you are single and see what happens. You have been dating so long people probably think you are taken, and not available. His not wanting to commit or resolve repetitive conflicts with you are bad signs. Partners should grow in their relationships and find ways to resolve their arguments in a way that is satisfactory to both partners. But if you keep fighting over the same issues and you never grow then you will always fight over those particular issues because neither of you is willing to submit to the other.
I would go out with your friends and meet new people and see if God brings you a man that will fill your desire for a loving partner. Someone who knows how to commit and someone who knows how to resolve an argument with you in a way that makes you feel secure with your partner. When I have a fight with a friend, if that person is important to me we will talk about it and try to come to an understanding. But if you dont love that person, than that argument will drive a wedge between the two of you and end your friendship.
im in the same boat as you.....i REALLY w ish i could help ya out there
I think he wont.......but you sound so itelligent that Im sure you are going to be ok. Ive had my heart broke and ya know I was better off afterwards. My life changed for the better and I never looked back. Im not sure of your faith but if you are a Christian then look to the God for answers. And ya know what...........my ex now drives a 1977 beat up Chevy!!! LOL
Sounds like he will not come back. If he is not ready for commitment then find someone who will be committed to you. Sounds like he might be interested in another girl. That is the reason guys say things like ';I am not ready for a relationship right now.';
Sweetie...no man is worth your tears. I know that's easier said than done. Just know that you should move on with your life, and that you don't need to have him around. If he doesn't want a romantic relationship, you don't need a friendship as it's only going to hurt you in the long run (example--a few months he may have a new girl in his life...).
You can get over this with the help of your friends/family. Just remember this too; no man is worth your tears, and the one that is worth it, won't make you cry.
How do you get your ex boyfriend to want you again?
me %26amp; my ex bf broke up and i wanna get back with him but he says he doesnt know he said he loves me but he needs time off, were still talking but he is talking to someone else to and he went out on a date with her todayHow do you get your ex boyfriend to want you again?
You really need to look at the situation from the perspective of a man. A woman would feel special and loved if the man she broke up with came crawling back to her professing his undying love. Men don't find that charming or endearing at all. In fact, they find it annoying. So if your goal is to get him back, the best advice possible is act like a man. Put your emotions away when you're around him or talking to him, and never act desperate.
There's a lot to be said for the chase at the beginning of any new relationship. Remember back to when you and your ex were first dating. He'd do everything in his power to get your attention and to spend time with you. That likely fizzled as the relationship wore on and eventually things just fell apart. If you want to get him back forever you have to recreate that feeling in him. You have to set out to be the woman he wants to chase and then you cannot ever allow him to catch you completely.
A perfect first step towards this goal is to disappear from your ex boyfriend's life. Don't move thousands of miles away or refuse to talk to him, but don't initiate any contact with him at all. Make a point of doing things that improve you as a person. Go out with friends, have fun and never let your ex think that you are still hung up on him. When you aren't around and constantly available to him anymore he'll come looking for you. It's the hunter in him. Once he does you need to keep him on his toes which means you don't always return his calls, you suggest that you two be friends and you make excuses sometimes when he wants to get together. If you do this, he'll be on the path to win your heart yet again, this time for forever.
Don't give up on him if you believe he's the man you are meant to be with.
Good luck!
You really need to look at the situation from the perspective of a man. A woman would feel special and loved if the man she broke up with came crawling back to her professing his undying love. Men don't find that charming or endearing at all. In fact, they find it annoying. So if your goal is to get him back, the best advice possible is act like a man. Put your emotions away when you're around him or talking to him, and never act desperate.
There's a lot to be said for the chase at the beginning of any new relationship. Remember back to when you and your ex were first dating. He'd do everything in his power to get your attention and to spend time with you. That likely fizzled as the relationship wore on and eventually things just fell apart. If you want to get him back forever you have to recreate that feeling in him. You have to set out to be the woman he wants to chase and then you cannot ever allow him to catch you completely.
A perfect first step towards this goal is to disappear from your ex boyfriend's life. Don't move thousands of miles away or refuse to talk to him, but don't initiate any contact with him at all. Make a point of doing things that improve you as a person. Go out with friends, have fun and never let your ex think that you are still hung up on him. When you aren't around and constantly available to him anymore he'll come looking for you. It's the hunter in him. Once he does you need to keep him on his toes which means you don't always return his calls, you suggest that you two be friends and you make excuses sometimes when he wants to get together. If you do this, he'll be on the path to win your heart yet again, this time for forever.
Don't give up on him if you believe he's the man you are meant to be with.
Good luck!
How do I get my ex-boyfriend back?
I ask because I miss my ex-boyfriend and I wonder what I could do to get him back. In case this helps with your answer- he broke up with me because he felt like we were fighting too much. I am thin, pretty, educated, and was respectful to him. We fought over restaurants to go to and what social events to attend. He took these fights in a serious way though. He did not have his first girlfriend until 36 yrs old- me. I am in my late 20's. He just doesn't know that this type of squabbling is normal. Also, he forgets that I am younger and don't know as much as him. What do you think? How could I help him see that he is making too much of these fights?How do I get my ex-boyfriend back?
I hate to be hard as i really feel for you babe...But he IS your EX and you need to get over him. He obviously didn't like these squabbles, true every couple goes through it, but it is the severity and the amount you squabbled, as i never have a full on fight with my boyfriend, as i can guarantee i would finish it, because everyone can only take so much squab ling, my partner is older than me as well.
Pick yourself up and go and find someone that is worthy of you, even better spend sometime being single and enjoying yourself, the right person will come along when you least expect it, trust me i know. If you allow this obsession to carry on you will bring yourself down chasing a man that clearly has NO interest in you.
And you clearly could do better.
Hope this helpsHow do I get my ex-boyfriend back?
forget him move on
sounds like...
u can do better.
I think there is incompatibility there. There is a pattern already that MIGHT continue, forever. Good thing you split up to really test yourselves if both of you are truly for each other....of course that's until both of you will have to make compromise.
I hate to be hard as i really feel for you babe...But he IS your EX and you need to get over him. He obviously didn't like these squabbles, true every couple goes through it, but it is the severity and the amount you squabbled, as i never have a full on fight with my boyfriend, as i can guarantee i would finish it, because everyone can only take so much squab ling, my partner is older than me as well.
Pick yourself up and go and find someone that is worthy of you, even better spend sometime being single and enjoying yourself, the right person will come along when you least expect it, trust me i know. If you allow this obsession to carry on you will bring yourself down chasing a man that clearly has NO interest in you.
And you clearly could do better.
Hope this helpsHow do I get my ex-boyfriend back?
forget him move on
sounds like...
u can do better.
I think there is incompatibility there. There is a pattern already that MIGHT continue, forever. Good thing you split up to really test yourselves if both of you are truly for each other....of course that's until both of you will have to make compromise.
I want my ex boyfriend back, I broke up with him over a voice message?
I have been dating my ex boyfriend for the past 5months, I am cancer he is Pisces, He is a great guy except his moods and sometimes don't care attitude. I sometimes do things trying to get his attention, like calling him while I am out clubbing, or telling him random things about guys who are interested in me (I know it's immature), since he never show any emotions at times . So recently I started noticing that I was the one initiating anything in the relationship, from calling to texting and arranging when we are going to see each other, so last week I sent him a text in the afternoon, asking to see him, he ignored me, I tried calling him later on in the day, he still ignored me, so I called him at night and dumped him, I left him a voice message since he didnt pick up. A whole week went by and no word from him, I was hurt by this and called him last night just so we can talk and maybe break up officially, but he didnt pick up, the problem is, I miss him sooo badly, it hurts, I even sent him a text telling him how much I miss him, and he is still ignoring me. My friend said I should give him time, he will call when he wants to, also I was thinking maybe I should move on, but how do I move on when we didnt break up officially? And if I try to get him back, what should I say?
all your advice is welcome. Thanks.I want my ex boyfriend back, I broke up with him over a voice message?
Well, from what I've read so far, I think you should have broken up with him and I will tell you why.
You've just told me about 5 different instances of where you are trying to get his attention and he seems to pay no mind to you at all. I don't really think its the seperation that hurts as much as the feeling that he does not seem to pay attention to you, hence why you act out by taking first small measures like calling him while you are out, to more dramatic measures like telling him how many guys have been hitting on you.
At the same time he may not be getting the point that you want his attention, more like she-doesnt-really-care-about-me anyway. So telling him later how much you miss him may be too little too late.
However, I must say this, staying with a guy like that, who seems to not pay attention to you, in my view, is not healthy for you. You seem like a person who wants to be loved in return as actively as you are, though there are is possibility that you are emotionally masochistic, but I really hope not.
At any rate, try seeing other people for awhile, people who care for you as much as you want to be cared for.
By the way, horoscopes are silly, there's no proof whatsoever that that kind of stuff is true, its left specific yet vague so that its open to interpretation, and you shouldn't let something like that dictate the people you choose to date.I want my ex boyfriend back, I broke up with him over a voice message?
he did not want to contact u. why don't u understand this, all d time u calling him . he is not responding .Why u wasting ur time with a guy u don't Even care abt u , u deserve a better guy.stop wasting ur time .. n move on..u seems to be a very interesting girl..see sm sweet guy..
best of luck
Say nothing and move on why do you want to be around someone who pays no attention to you. What in the hell is going on in today's society?
When was the last time you saw him in person? That's the best way to either officially break up, or make up.
That is very odd behavior.. maybe he is in danger, or his cell broke.
Maybe something more important than your relationship is going on in his life and he doesn't have time or care enough to text/call you back right away.
i think if he is ignoring u he probs doesnt really care to much about wat happened. either that or he is dead. just give it a bit more time and if he doesnt talk to u in the next week just move on
blame it on hormones or your period duu btw over the phone. that was colder than the atlantic. how could you!!!!! %26gt;=(
Oh my ...lovely. He will not take you back, why should he? You basically screwed up and you have to move on...he probably has.
Don't waste you time! He is Clearly not the least bit interested in you Whatsoever!!
seems like he was over it.
try to get related with him and tell him sorry for what happened and tell that u miss him a lot.......
yea, give him time. but i know how hard that could be. go to his house and TALK TO HIM IN PERSON!!
Is that the kind of boyfriend you want? One that just doesn't give you the time of day? If you have to do things to get some attention from him, then I don't think he cares. If he doesn't show emotions towards you, he must not be as deep in the relationship as you. I'm sorry girl, but you deserve a man that cares about you the way you are willing to care for them. Every woman does.myspace icons pale skin
all your advice is welcome. Thanks.I want my ex boyfriend back, I broke up with him over a voice message?
Well, from what I've read so far, I think you should have broken up with him and I will tell you why.
You've just told me about 5 different instances of where you are trying to get his attention and he seems to pay no mind to you at all. I don't really think its the seperation that hurts as much as the feeling that he does not seem to pay attention to you, hence why you act out by taking first small measures like calling him while you are out, to more dramatic measures like telling him how many guys have been hitting on you.
At the same time he may not be getting the point that you want his attention, more like she-doesnt-really-care-about-me anyway. So telling him later how much you miss him may be too little too late.
However, I must say this, staying with a guy like that, who seems to not pay attention to you, in my view, is not healthy for you. You seem like a person who wants to be loved in return as actively as you are, though there are is possibility that you are emotionally masochistic, but I really hope not.
At any rate, try seeing other people for awhile, people who care for you as much as you want to be cared for.
By the way, horoscopes are silly, there's no proof whatsoever that that kind of stuff is true, its left specific yet vague so that its open to interpretation, and you shouldn't let something like that dictate the people you choose to date.I want my ex boyfriend back, I broke up with him over a voice message?
he did not want to contact u. why don't u understand this, all d time u calling him . he is not responding .Why u wasting ur time with a guy u don't Even care abt u , u deserve a better guy.stop wasting ur time .. n move on..u seems to be a very interesting girl..see sm sweet guy..
best of luck
Say nothing and move on why do you want to be around someone who pays no attention to you. What in the hell is going on in today's society?
When was the last time you saw him in person? That's the best way to either officially break up, or make up.
That is very odd behavior.. maybe he is in danger, or his cell broke.
Maybe something more important than your relationship is going on in his life and he doesn't have time or care enough to text/call you back right away.
i think if he is ignoring u he probs doesnt really care to much about wat happened. either that or he is dead. just give it a bit more time and if he doesnt talk to u in the next week just move on
blame it on hormones or your period duu btw over the phone. that was colder than the atlantic. how could you!!!!! %26gt;=(
Oh my ...lovely. He will not take you back, why should he? You basically screwed up and you have to move on...he probably has.
Don't waste you time! He is Clearly not the least bit interested in you Whatsoever!!
seems like he was over it.
try to get related with him and tell him sorry for what happened and tell that u miss him a lot.......
yea, give him time. but i know how hard that could be. go to his house and TALK TO HIM IN PERSON!!
Is that the kind of boyfriend you want? One that just doesn't give you the time of day? If you have to do things to get some attention from him, then I don't think he cares. If he doesn't show emotions towards you, he must not be as deep in the relationship as you. I'm sorry girl, but you deserve a man that cares about you the way you are willing to care for them. Every woman does.
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