How do you get your ex boyfriend to like you again?

i went out with this guy and i really really liked him but it was a summer thing so as soon as school started we broke up and he cheated on me (so i was told) i still really like him but we don't really talk anymore and aren't friends. i either want to get back together with him or find a way for me to get over him and just be friends...help?How do you get your ex boyfriend to like you again?
don't go back on that road. once a cheater, always a cheater. i say you should try and fine someone else. someone better, nicer, and trustworthy. it'll get your mind off of your ex and you'll be happy at the same time.How do you get your ex boyfriend to like you again?
OK to answer your question, you don't. Why would you? You dated Toadboy before and it didn't work out. Oh, btw - if you have broken up, then he didn't cheat on you - you were out of the picture - so don't listen to your so-called friends - who definitely don't have your back.





What you really want is your dignity back. Apparently Toadboy broke up with you - not the other way around - so you need some kind of closure where you aren't the loser. Sadly, that doesn't always happen. It's true - sometimes you win at the Love thing - but more often, you lose. It's the way things go.





So you want to be friends? Why? You know him too well. BUT if you HAVE to be friends, it all depends on how intimate you two were before. If you had sex, the chance of being friends is pretty slim - that's because again, you know each other too well and you will be seen as desperate for his penis and not his friendship. You don't have to be enemies or anything - but friends? no. Just be neutrals. Be pleasant and polite - and if someone asks about you two be truthful - we were close once, but that was long ago.





As for getting over him? This takes time - and a lot of work on your part. Obviously your pride is hurt so you need to heal. Try concentrating on your school work, your summer job, and other activities that help you improve YOU. Right now you don't really need a boyfriend anyway. That's because you're not ready to get back in the game. So again, work on YOU. If you need to get in shape, work out. If you need to work on your grades - study. Seriously. It's really important to work on you. That way, when you meet a really special person, you'll be ready and prepared.





Trust me dear one, one of these days some really teriffic guy will come along and take you to paradise. And then you will wonder what you saw in Toadboy in the first place.





But if you are mooning around for Toadboy, Prince Charming will naturally assume you are more involved than you really are - and pass you by for some other gal.

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