How to tell your ex-boyfriend you wanna be with him but you can't cause the boyfriend you got now is hitting u?

I was stupid and broke up with my boyfriend for someone else, and i wanna break up with the guy i am with now and be with my ex again. But i want to tell my ex why i can't cause i think he thinks it is just i don't wanna be with him but it ain't it is just i am scared to. Because of the temper of my new boyfriend scares me and yes he has hit me a few times but he said he was sorry... So how do i tell my ex i am being abused by this guy so maybe i can get out of this bad relationship and so he knows the truth that i do love him and only him. What should I do? should i believe this one dude that he cares for me and says he wont ever hit me again? or go back to the one i was with for 8 months and was stupid to break up with him? what do i do?How to tell your ex-boyfriend you wanna be with him but you can't cause the boyfriend you got now is hitting u?
Regardless of your desire for your old bf. You need to get rid of the abusive bf, NOW!





When you get yourself back into a normal mode of mind. Consider getting back with the old bf if you still desire to.How to tell your ex-boyfriend you wanna be with him but you can't cause the boyfriend you got now is hitting u?
leave the guy who has hit you. As we all know, he will probably hit you again and if not it will get worse. Also sounds like you like your ex waay more than your boyfriend (who abuses you).. You should tell your ex how you feel and see where it goes from there, but definately break up with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend should not hit you, and you definately deserve more from a guy.
If they hit you once, they are going to hit again and again and it will get worse, trust me I've been there and the hitting got worse until he almost killed me. Get out now, even if you don't go back with your ex. You need to tell someone what is going on before it's to late..
Go back to the one you love because hitting is not love. I do not believe in hitting any girl period. If he was here close to me, I would go beat his *** for you and he would stay away so you could go live your life with the one you really love.
Tell your ex and have your ex tell him you dont want to be with him anymore. you wont get touched but make sure you dump him sometime, your safety is in danger.
GO back to your EX!! Whoo friking cares if he said sorry. He hit youiu!! Abused you!!! That is not right!! or go back to neither, but you should tell your Ex.
you put yourself in this situation-





you need to enforce a figure that has more authority.
abusive relationships cannot be fixed just like that. Either dump this guy for your ex or buy a lot of bandaids.
dnt ever let a man put hands on you!!


are you kidding me?


go back to your ex, own up to everything and tell him that the asshole your currently with is hitting you..


no one deserves that, even if he is ';sorry'; it doesnt mean he'll stop.. you should watch the movie ';the burning bed'; its based on that, its from the 70's and has farah fawcett in it.. i think you can learn a lot from it, its based on a true story too..
First off, get out of the relationship you're in right now. I was in an abusive relationship a couple years back, and he did the same thing. He would always apologize profusely after hitting me, and I (stupidly) believed him. Don't. Behavior like this starts with hitting and apologies and can escalate to even more than that very quickly, quicker than you think. So first, get out, and you should go to a counselor and explain to them the situation just to alert them. That way, if anything happens because of the break-up, people are prepared to deal with it, because you need someone in a position of authority to know what's going on (I had to do all of this as well). In regards to going back to your ex, talk to him. You need to tell him that you left him for someone else, but now you regret it completely and you didn't realize what a good deal you had with him until you were with someone else. Unfortunately, that's a lesson that a lot of people have to learn the hard way, and tell him that that's exactly what happened to you, but now you realize what a good catch he is. He'll be hurt that you left him for someone else, and he might feel like he's ';second rate'; because you wanted to be with this other guy until he started abusing you, but you'll have to be completely honest with him and just hope for the best.
Well first, you need to tell someone that he's hitting you. You can't really believe that he won't hit you again especially if he has hit you after apologizing. If you believe him every time he does it you will never leave. You need to talk to your ex and tell him how you feel. He will be able to protect you from the guy you're with and then you two will be able to live happily ever after...at least till you want it to be over for good. Good luck.
How old are you?


You seriously need to kick the BF that is hitting you to the curb... fast... and file charges on him! You need to teach this twerp that hitting women is NOT acceptable under any circumstances. DO NOT take any more abuse... ever!


This guy will continue hitting you and the beatings will get more severe with time! The typical pattern is for him to cycle back and forth from abuse to apology and a little sweet period, followed by a more extreme beating. Stop it now!


If you are still living with your parents, talk to them NOW... tell them what is going on and have them help you file charges with the police. The police will help in any way possible, including helping you to get a restraining order against him.


If you and he are still going to school, you need to inform school officials about this so they can take steps to protect you.


After that, you need to cut him off completely. Use an answering machine or caller ID to screen calls, and you don't open the door to him.


Yes, talk to the old BF... see if you can get him back. The best way to keep the abusive bully away is to have someone else capable of standing up for you around.
If you don't wanna be with your current boyfriend, then don't. Simple as that. If you're scared of him file a PFA.





If you wanna work stuff out with your boyfriend then try for that. Look at counseling for him or something though because his temper sounds out of control.





But if you wanna be with your ex (which it really sounds like), then try to get him back.





If that doesn't work out, look for someone else.





There's always the third side of the coin. Heads, tails, and landing on the side. Life is never either/or. Always look for the third option. And no one can tell you what you should do. It's all up to you and what you really want. When you know what you really want then you'll find a way to make that happen.
Well the ex may be starting to see a pattern with you. How about break up with this new guy because he hits you. Break up with this new guy because he is an abuser. You can't break up with this guy on hopes your ex will take you back. You have to take care of yourself first. If you want your ex back then show him that you have changed. You ever get a gut feeling? Good Luck You made need counseling for your codependency. Any man that ever kicked my *** once would not get a lick in on me twice.
You need help. You need to tell a police officer about the abuse. If you can document the abuse, your boyfriend will be arrested. At that point, you can file a restraining order against him, and he will not be allowed anywhere near you again. You MUST pres charges, and go through the court process, because if you don't, your boyfriend can come back, and then he'll be even angrier. In the mean time, you need to set up a support system for yourself. Tell your parents, move back in with them if that is what it takes to get away from this guy, or go to a shelter. There is no acceptable reason for anybody to hit you, so his apology doesn't mean anything. As far as your relationship is concerned, it is over. Once you have put a safe distance between yourself and your abuser, you can start to contact your ex. You need to be sure that you don't just want your ex back because your current situation bites, so take it slow.