Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How would you tell your ex boyfriend that you haven't tlkd for about a year now that you want him back???

Everything was going great, then, suddenly, he got upset because he couldn't spend time with me one day....but we'd just seen each other like a week before that so I didn't understand why he was blowing the situation out of proportion over that ONE day!!!....but something kind of told me that there was more than me that he was upset about.....but he didn't give me a chance to explain.....he just said that he couldn't seriously be in a relationship with someone who he couldn't see when he needed to, or when it really counted the most---something to that effect (I forgot how he worded it exactly)...... WHAT A DUSH RIGHT?!?!? Well....now I want him back in my life and I can't get him off my mind....so, any logical and/or rational suggestions? Nothing outrageous - PLEASEHow would you tell your ex boyfriend that you haven't tlkd for about a year now that you want him back???
you just have to try to forget and move on. its already been almost a year. he might have found someone else and is dating again. it seems like he was already out of the relationship before you guys broke up. he just seems like he was really looking for someone else. i think you should just move on. because the more you keep wanting this and thinking of ways to talk to him, you're just going to get hurt in the end.How would you tell your ex boyfriend that you haven't tlkd for about a year now that you want him back???
Wow, you are just one more. They didn't give you an explanation, which usualy the truth is never told, and you haven't been strong enough to recover your self-esteem and move on. The right thing to do is to move on, and find someone else, you can make it to that point, there is no point to go back ';to the past'; when you can find the same or better in someone else. Don't tell anything to that person. Plus, yes, there was ';something else';, you will see it once you get over, you will read everything very clearly, now that's not possible, you are still emotionally attached. That's not love, is just a weakness on you, probably some kind of personal-addiction to that person, the guy did the right thing to let you ';hanging'; as he did, to have a ';safety-net'; just in case, didn't have the guts to really finish the relationship like a man is supposed to do. Move on.

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