Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to get your ex boyfriend back?

My ex and I got off to kind of a rocky start, (our relationship was back to back from his previous one) but things got better when he told my parents he made a mistake and wanted to be with me. Just 3 weeks ago he broke up with me, 1 month and 2 days shy of our 3 year anniversary. We had a lot of jealousy issues in our relationship, along with my selfishness and our smothering each other. he decided he was sick of the arguing and needed time to himself, so i'm sitting here in love with him, while he just wants to be single and do whatever he wants without having to answer to someone even though hes told me he still loves me and always will no matter what. How can i get him back?How to get your ex boyfriend back?
probably just move on with life, have fun being single like what he's doing.. or maybe do something that you haven't done before when you guys where still together or rather have a make-over, cut or dye your hair, color your nails and stay pretty.. it'll make him realize that he has lost a diamond because he was too busy collecting stones... and tell him ';hey your the one who broke-up with me'; .. at his face!!! sweet revenge!How to get your ex boyfriend back?
Knock on his door wearing just high heels and an overcoat...
How about dealing with your own issues with some outside help perhaps. Since he made a clear statement that he enjoys not having to answer to anyone, then this means do not even attempt to get back with him because whatever problems you had before will continue because he is not ready for something so permanent. Get over it by not getting back with him. It is ok for you two to love each other from afar.
My boyfriend split up with me once when we had ben going out for 2 years, not because he wanted to see other girls butbecause he wanted to be free and not have to worry about the commitments and struggles of a relationship - we were both having our own problems at the time, and arguing quite a lot, and i have to admit i smothered him too. But, we got back together less than a week later, becuase i completely igonored what m mum said abut ';protecting my dignity'; and cried down the phone about how much I loved him about 5 tims a day lol! I'm not saying this is the best or the only possible solution, because I think it repelled him further to begin with, but I begged him for another chance and eventually I got it! don't give up on him just yet if he's worth fighting for!!maybe give him a week to sort his head out and decide what he wants, an give him a chance to miss you, before you make any advances. If he says that time is what he needs then there is hppe, but perhaps you will have to give him that space...I can't possibly decide wats best for you but I just thought id make some suggestions, having been in a very, very similar situation! Just make sure he knows you love him and that you want to try again before gving p on your relationship. Good-luck!
It sounds like you both had a lot of problems in your relationship. If you want an honest answer, I'd have to say that you really need to just let this guy go. It sounds like you both have had a lot of ups and downs in this relationship. Move on. I always look at the beginning of a relationship as one that should be problem free, (yes we all argue, but breaking up and getting back together a bunch of times is a major clue that maybe it isn't working). If you are having problems this early (and yes, I know you were together 3 yrs, but really that's not that long), how are you going to be 5 yrs down the road or longer? I really think you should just move on, and let yourself heal from this relationship...take a year off from dating, and get back to being YOU, and then go out and date. Good luck!
Take it from me......leave it alone, you will thank yourself someday....
';Needing time to oneself'; is more often than not a sugar coated version of the truth that he's found someone else. Could be wrong, but that's usually how it is.
it's just a second wind and won't last long, it will fizzle out and die and you would have wasted another 3 years of your life!!
Sounds like he is having more fun single than in this rocky relationship. You both have some growing up to do.
just go to hell
Several different ways. They are hard and risky but definatly worth a try. Emotionally balckmail him. Cry a bit. Keep on talking to him over the phone. Or get him jealous, but this one is a risky one. This is how you have to get him jealous by going out with another person. But tell the other person that it is just an act. But if he found another girl than thats even worse. Best of Luck
dont if you broke up once it wont last its just a waste of time
1.2.3..oh, he doesnt want you back, hence him being happy. you were a ****** to him, he dumped you. get over it. even if he takes you back he will always know you, he wont necessarily respect you and will prob dump you when something better comes along.. cause hey, he doesnt really owe y0u that respect....it is a partnership... you didnt seem to appreciate that. good on him, i wish him all the best and i think you should back off, leave him be and get on with your own ..................life....youre not in love with him. youre just piissed he dumped you, and youre piissed and want to see if you can get him back, and he knows that which is why nothing meaningful will ever happen again. bad luck chicky!!! time to pick another victim..

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