Im the typical ';good girl'; and my ex Mark was the typical ';bad boy'; He had a really good heart though. We were together (on off) for 2 years. I was crazy in love with him. Back then i was VERY innocent and didn't have much experience (I was a virgin) I was scared of getting hurt. I wouldn't kiss him at all %26amp;wouldn't tell him how i felt. He respected that i was a virgin %26amp; never pressured me.He was 2 years older than me %26amp; was looking for a serious relationship and because i was scared of getting hurt and wouldn't let my guards down i couldn't give him that.I also wondered what it would be like dating a guy who was the typical ';good boy'; and felt guilty. He had no idea how much i loved him, he honestly thought he didnt mean anything to me Back then i couldnt understand how he needed intimacy %26amp; someone to show him they cared.I got angry %26amp; broke up with him saying ALOT of things i regret.
After we broke up i dated the typical ';good boy'; (didnt smoke, drink and had his life in order) (Justin) He would rather play sports/be with his friends than me. I was his';trophy GF'; He'd only see me when he wanted to show me to his friends or had nothing to do. He wasnt sexual %26amp; rather watch sports then be intimate For the 1st time in my life i realized how it felt to be with someone couldnt care less about you and wouldnt emotionally/ physically show you how they feel. Because im a really good girl at heart it was very boring for me being with a guy who was also SO good. Im looking for a serious relationship and Justin wasnt. We broke up.
Im finally ready for the relationship Mark wanted(a year and 3months later). Im not afraid to get hurt and am able to the girlfriend i always wanted to be with him. I ended up sending him a friendly email asking him hows he doing. Im worried because he was living with this girl but they broke up but i hope there not back together.
What do you think of all this?
Thanks!If this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend would you of done what I did? Do you think what I did was stupid?
you should talk to him face to face and tell him how you feel.
but FIRST. find out if he's still single!~
good luck (:If this was your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend would you of done what I did? Do you think what I did was stupid?
Go back to the guy and after all this time, maybe you two could start fooling around together and see where that goes, not bed him down at first, but rather see how it feels to be sexual with someone for a change.
Friday, August 20, 2010
If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
Before my Ex and I broke up we were on and off for 2 years. When we were about to get back together I made a mistake and had a fling with this guy and lied to him and he found out about it and flipped out at me on MSN he told me ';i wasn't the girl he thought i was, and that he was wrong about me and that i turned out how everyone warned him id turn out'; He then told me to '; f off, and that he gave me his heart his time and his trust but i gave him nothing but lies'; he then blocked and deleted me on MSN. He never talked to me again
When i tried talking to his friend about it they didn't seem interested in hearing my side of the story. I ended up seeing him at the mall a couple months after we stopped talking and he just walked right by me and gave me a very dirty look.
I heard he moved on with someone else and so did I. Its been a year and 3 months since that day he flipped out and stopped talking to me. He just emailed me this today
Hey Lynn
Do you remember me? lol
I haven鈥檛 talked to you in a long time and I was just wondering how you were doing?
Are you still out of town or here in Ottawa?
Well anyways I hope all is good!
ttyl or something
Should I write back?
Do you think hes just being friendly or wanting something more?
What do you think about this?If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
Write back in a friendly manner. If you guys continue to talk and something more comes of it, so be it.If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
I wouldn't answer...why did he get in touch after so long and why should you only talk on his terms? I think he'd be looking for something more because if he just wanted to be friends he'd have written a lot sooner. Sometimes the past is better left in the past.
He wants to get back together. If he didn't, he wouldn't bother emailing. Whether you still want to get back with him is another question.
When i tried talking to his friend about it they didn't seem interested in hearing my side of the story. I ended up seeing him at the mall a couple months after we stopped talking and he just walked right by me and gave me a very dirty look.
I heard he moved on with someone else and so did I. Its been a year and 3 months since that day he flipped out and stopped talking to me. He just emailed me this today
Hey Lynn
Do you remember me? lol
I haven鈥檛 talked to you in a long time and I was just wondering how you were doing?
Are you still out of town or here in Ottawa?
Well anyways I hope all is good!
ttyl or something
Should I write back?
Do you think hes just being friendly or wanting something more?
What do you think about this?If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
Write back in a friendly manner. If you guys continue to talk and something more comes of it, so be it.If your Ex boyfriend/girlfriend did this to you what would you honestly think?
I wouldn't answer...why did he get in touch after so long and why should you only talk on his terms? I think he'd be looking for something more because if he just wanted to be friends he'd have written a lot sooner. Sometimes the past is better left in the past.
He wants to get back together. If he didn't, he wouldn't bother emailing. Whether you still want to get back with him is another question.
Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
Ok so I really want my ex boyrfriend Jake back. I'll give you the background info. We dated for 4 months last winter and then he broke up with me on valentines day. He told me that he didn't think he liked me as much as I liked him.
I started dating another guy and it lasted like 2 months. A few weeks after that was over, Jake came back and asked for me back. We hung out for the weekend but then the next week he didn't call me at all. I called him to see what was up and he told me that he had changed his mind again and that he didn't want to be with me. Why did he come back then? Was he just jealous from me dating another guy or did he really miss me?
I know he probably sounds like a douche bag but I can't stop thinking about him. It's been 3 months since I last saw him since I'm home from school for the summer (I'm in college). He texted me a couple weeks ago to ask me when I was moving back to school. Other than that we haven't talked much over the summer at all. I've been trying to move on but I can't!
Is there anyway I could get him back? Or do I just have to take a reality check that we will never be together because he doesn't like me? Tell me what you think my chances are or what I should do about the situation once I go back to school?
Thanks for your time!Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
Hello
Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to remove the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..
2.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Men just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When looking good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
I learned these tips and a lot more in a great guide that already helped more then 6100 in 67 different countries to get their ex back. You can find great review and information about this guide that was helpful for me here:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-u鈥?/a>
I hope you will get your ex boyfriend soon!Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
I know it's going to be hard but leave the past in the past and move on. Never go back to your ex no matter how much you like him. It sounded like he was just jealous of you dating another guy. Trust me, leave him behind and find someone who will treat you right.
nah he just wants what he doesn't have and he's using you out of convenience, move on and then he will move on and then you won't have this problem anymore
he just didnt want to buy u the valentines day gift
too long did not read.
It seems pretty well obvious by your explanation that he does not want to be with you, saying that he doesn't even like you as much as you did him. But if you really want him back just tell him exactly how you feel. I don't know whats up with people these days and not being able to do that. The highschool drama was supposed to end with highschool. Just tell him what he means to you and ask him to really consider being with you again. There is no more simple or common solution to this. If he wants to be with you, he'll make the choice and come back.
Spend every free minute of every day doing something that makes you happy, either with friends or someone new.
If you think that there is nothing that could possibly make you happy, go out and do something that is stereotypically fun, for example, going to an amusement park or a funny movie.
It is hard, but if you want to get out of where you are, you gotta do it.
Eventually you will forget about Jake. Let him know how you feel one last time, and then cease chasing him - if he is worth it, he will come to you.
I started dating another guy and it lasted like 2 months. A few weeks after that was over, Jake came back and asked for me back. We hung out for the weekend but then the next week he didn't call me at all. I called him to see what was up and he told me that he had changed his mind again and that he didn't want to be with me. Why did he come back then? Was he just jealous from me dating another guy or did he really miss me?
I know he probably sounds like a douche bag but I can't stop thinking about him. It's been 3 months since I last saw him since I'm home from school for the summer (I'm in college). He texted me a couple weeks ago to ask me when I was moving back to school. Other than that we haven't talked much over the summer at all. I've been trying to move on but I can't!
Is there anyway I could get him back? Or do I just have to take a reality check that we will never be together because he doesn't like me? Tell me what you think my chances are or what I should do about the situation once I go back to school?
Thanks for your time!Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
Hello
Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to remove the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..
2.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Men just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When looking good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
I learned these tips and a lot more in a great guide that already helped more then 6100 in 67 different countries to get their ex back. You can find great review and information about this guide that was helpful for me here:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-u鈥?/a>
I hope you will get your ex boyfriend soon!Do you think I could get my ex boyfriend back and if so, how?
I know it's going to be hard but leave the past in the past and move on. Never go back to your ex no matter how much you like him. It sounded like he was just jealous of you dating another guy. Trust me, leave him behind and find someone who will treat you right.
nah he just wants what he doesn't have and he's using you out of convenience, move on and then he will move on and then you won't have this problem anymore
he just didnt want to buy u the valentines day gift
too long did not read.
It seems pretty well obvious by your explanation that he does not want to be with you, saying that he doesn't even like you as much as you did him. But if you really want him back just tell him exactly how you feel. I don't know whats up with people these days and not being able to do that. The highschool drama was supposed to end with highschool. Just tell him what he means to you and ask him to really consider being with you again. There is no more simple or common solution to this. If he wants to be with you, he'll make the choice and come back.
Spend every free minute of every day doing something that makes you happy, either with friends or someone new.
If you think that there is nothing that could possibly make you happy, go out and do something that is stereotypically fun, for example, going to an amusement park or a funny movie.
It is hard, but if you want to get out of where you are, you gotta do it.
Eventually you will forget about Jake. Let him know how you feel one last time, and then cease chasing him - if he is worth it, he will come to you.
How to tell if your ex still wants you back?
My ex and I broke up 2 months ago. I was the one who got dumped. Recently she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend, the one she dumped me for. I'm confused, sometimes she seemed like she's interested in me, she would tell me how she feels about the relationship she had with the guy, how angry she is with him for cheating on her, and at times when i show her some interest, she would play hard to get like ignoring me. Need help!How to tell if your ex still wants you back?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/How to tell if your ex still wants you back?
It sounds like you should just move on and find someone new. If she dumped you it's pretty obvious she was ready to move on. If she's telling you about how she feels about her relationship with the guy it sounds like she feels comfortable telling you about moving on from you (which means there's basically no going back), because if i was trying to get back with someone, the last thing I would be doing is rubbing in their face that I had moved on from them and talk about my new relationship with them. Take her as ';playing hard to get'; as her not wanting it. Leave it and move on.
well. ur girl must be suffering from the hardships shes having. i cant really tell how but. here are some of the symptoms she might show.
talks to u in long hours.
laughs at every joke u tell.
interested in every topic u open about u.
hey. someday she might actually tell u how she feels about u. u should ask her a question like ';am i still in ur heart?'; or like ';do i still have a chance?'; and ';whats the status of our friendship?';
she said she broke up with the guy for u. so i guess that means she wants u back. and u are definitely in a hard track right now. coz u cant tell yet if she wants u back or if she just wants a friend to share her problems and hardships with. but she is showing some symptoms that this might be a step to go further.
You can tell if she shakes her butt in your face, and says got to blast. because those are personal facts and she would only tell the ones she loves that.
Thats how i found out my bf loves me.
She doesn't want to be romantically involved with you. She is using you as a friend crutch. Get someone else. As long as she knows she has a hold on your she will keep you under her foot.
Let your ex b your ex n move on
she broke up wit u for another guy she will definitely do it again
she's a drama queen...stay away.myspace icons Ltd
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/How to tell if your ex still wants you back?
It sounds like you should just move on and find someone new. If she dumped you it's pretty obvious she was ready to move on. If she's telling you about how she feels about her relationship with the guy it sounds like she feels comfortable telling you about moving on from you (which means there's basically no going back), because if i was trying to get back with someone, the last thing I would be doing is rubbing in their face that I had moved on from them and talk about my new relationship with them. Take her as ';playing hard to get'; as her not wanting it. Leave it and move on.
well. ur girl must be suffering from the hardships shes having. i cant really tell how but. here are some of the symptoms she might show.
talks to u in long hours.
laughs at every joke u tell.
interested in every topic u open about u.
hey. someday she might actually tell u how she feels about u. u should ask her a question like ';am i still in ur heart?'; or like ';do i still have a chance?'; and ';whats the status of our friendship?';
she said she broke up with the guy for u. so i guess that means she wants u back. and u are definitely in a hard track right now. coz u cant tell yet if she wants u back or if she just wants a friend to share her problems and hardships with. but she is showing some symptoms that this might be a step to go further.
You can tell if she shakes her butt in your face, and says got to blast. because those are personal facts and she would only tell the ones she loves that.
Thats how i found out my bf loves me.
She doesn't want to be romantically involved with you. She is using you as a friend crutch. Get someone else. As long as she knows she has a hold on your she will keep you under her foot.
Let your ex b your ex n move on
she broke up wit u for another guy she will definitely do it again
she's a drama queen...stay away.
HOW TO GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK?
I will try to make this as short and sweet as I possibly can because im the type that can give great advice but cant take my own. Ive known this guy for about 5 years. We were always friends but never pursued anything like that. In the meantime I was in a relationship and so was he for three years with someone way older than him. She is also very unattractive and heavy compared to me. He always breaks up with her constantly and cheats on her and she takes him back EVERY TIME. Anyways we started dating after two years of not seeing eachother at all because all our mutual friends told me he liked me so what the hell I gave it a shot. He did EVERYTHING FOR ME for about two months, came to see me everyday, bought me anything I wanted, took me out, bought new things to impress me..basically everything to make me happy. He never tried to make a move on me once, all we did was makeout and he was very aware this is how I start things. Im also very outgoing and alot of men want to date me and he sees that. Hes more shy and reserved but still very attractive. Anyways things were perfect and I had the upper hand in the relationship, but still showed my affection to him willingly and was very loyal until one day when I was sick in bed he didnt come to see me. I was shocked and knew something was up so I didnt bother to call or text him for two days or respond to him and I also put some things in my facebook status that may have pissed him off. He changes his facebook status to single ( so gay I know) and his ex - girlfriend is commenting all over his wall. He had called her within the days of me ignoring him. I questioned why he did this and he said he was in a bad mood so I clearly lashed out without thinking and said '; if you want to be with her over me thats fine , i never liked you, and if you ever want me back you better crawl on your knees and hung up '; he questioned my confidence after that through a text and said '; how dare you say im back with her im not back with her shes my friend and she stuck by me for three years '; I never responded. In the meantime hes telling our friends how much he hates me, this man does not hate ANYONE. So two weeks later I text him and say '; So I hear you hate me whats up with that ';? NO RESPONSE ..so I apoligized for screaming at him and down talking him and her and I said I still want to be friends and he responded immediately saying of course we can be friends still. He refuses to see me and will NOT hang out with me. I know hes using his ex girlfriend for sex right now and he feels guilty going back and forth but HONESTLY WTF IS GOING ON IN THIS SITUATION?!HOW TO GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK?
Hello
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..
2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously make phone calls to him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and eating healthy. When on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. You can learn about the most popular and reliable guides in this helpful blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/top-rated-鈥?/a>
Hope it helps.HOW TO GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:
http://www.exbackguides.com/
Hello
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..
2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously make phone calls to him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and eating healthy. When on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. You can learn about the most popular and reliable guides in this helpful blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/top-rated-鈥?/a>
Hope it helps.HOW TO GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:
http://www.exbackguides.com/
Boys - what can your ex girlfriend do to win you over?
what would make you want your ex girlfriend back? my boyfriend and i broke up a week ago and he still talks to me and texts me and stuff. i never ever start the conversations and some days for no reason at all he'll link me to a youtube video or something to get my attention. but how can i make him want me back? how can i make him jealous and regret breaking up with me?Boys - what can your ex girlfriend do to win you over?
maybe nothing.
erase my memory and not cheat on me for two years with like 5 different guys this time.Boys - what can your ex girlfriend do to win you over?
of my ex wanted me back she would have to get a massive tat of my name on her chest. If i were you i would find some guy that you like then post a picture with you having the word property of whoever on you're arm.
well if you don't mind foul play make it seem like his current girl friend is cheating on him then comfort him in his time of need.... however you might want to save that for your last resort
get down on him men love that!!
maybe nothing.
erase my memory and not cheat on me for two years with like 5 different guys this time.Boys - what can your ex girlfriend do to win you over?
of my ex wanted me back she would have to get a massive tat of my name on her chest. If i were you i would find some guy that you like then post a picture with you having the word property of whoever on you're arm.
well if you don't mind foul play make it seem like his current girl friend is cheating on him then comfort him in his time of need.... however you might want to save that for your last resort
get down on him men love that!!
How Long Did It Take For Your Ex-Boyfriend To Call You?
I was dating a guy for about two months. I'm 36, he's 42. Things were going great! We had met online and after the 2nd date, he told me that he wasn't interested in dating anyone else and removed his profile from the online dating site where we met.
He dated his last girlfriend for 1 1/2 years and he broke up with her 4 months ago because her family didn't like him, she wanted kids (he doesn't) and he said the sex wasn't good. Four days ago, he called me and told me that his ex-gf has been calling him and wants to meet up with him. He didn't know if he wanted to meet with her...he really didn't see the point b/c of the issues they had, but he felt bad because she is a really sweet girl. I encouraged him to meet with her to see what she wanted and told him that we couldn't really move forward in our relationship until he resolved issues with her. He has friends coming in town today and they're going to be here for a week. He told me he wanted to wait until after his company was gone to deal with meeting with her. I encouraged him to meet with her before his friends got here, but I'm not sure if he did or not. It's been 4 days since we've spoken. I have not texted, called, or emailed...and he hasn't either. It's hard because I'm so used to hearing from him multiple times a day. I'm sort of in limbo right now...waiting to find out what happens...and although I'm starting to move on, preparing myself for the possibility that he may get back together with her...I'm just wondering...when a guy is dealing with ';an issue';...how long does it usually take before they start calling again? (days, weeks, months)?? What has been your experience??How Long Did It Take For Your Ex-Boyfriend To Call You?
I'm gonna be honest with you. If he is completely certain he wants to pursue something with you and that he has ZERO interest in his ex, he wouldn't have agreed to meet with her.
He dated his last girlfriend for 1 1/2 years and he broke up with her 4 months ago because her family didn't like him, she wanted kids (he doesn't) and he said the sex wasn't good. Four days ago, he called me and told me that his ex-gf has been calling him and wants to meet up with him. He didn't know if he wanted to meet with her...he really didn't see the point b/c of the issues they had, but he felt bad because she is a really sweet girl. I encouraged him to meet with her to see what she wanted and told him that we couldn't really move forward in our relationship until he resolved issues with her. He has friends coming in town today and they're going to be here for a week. He told me he wanted to wait until after his company was gone to deal with meeting with her. I encouraged him to meet with her before his friends got here, but I'm not sure if he did or not. It's been 4 days since we've spoken. I have not texted, called, or emailed...and he hasn't either. It's hard because I'm so used to hearing from him multiple times a day. I'm sort of in limbo right now...waiting to find out what happens...and although I'm starting to move on, preparing myself for the possibility that he may get back together with her...I'm just wondering...when a guy is dealing with ';an issue';...how long does it usually take before they start calling again? (days, weeks, months)?? What has been your experience??How Long Did It Take For Your Ex-Boyfriend To Call You?
I'm gonna be honest with you. If he is completely certain he wants to pursue something with you and that he has ZERO interest in his ex, he wouldn't have agreed to meet with her.
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