i went out with this guy twice and each time i broke up with him accidentally (my friends did it behind my back). how do i get him back...How Do You get your ex boyfriend to like you again?
well for one sit him down and let him know that you didnt want to break up with him that your friends did it..and trust me if he really likes you hell forgive you and you never know he might still have feelings for you!How Do You get your ex boyfriend to like you again?
explain to him your reasons for breaking up with him previously....and apologize.
make him jeaulus by not paying attention to him.
omigod i think you need to break up with your friends if they did that to you!! thats terrible! Just explain to him about the mistake
are you saying your friends broke up with him for you? ...how old are you? lol
don't do it, i guarantee if you do, you will be happy for the first week, then the second week the same issues that you broke up over will resurface and the third week you will break up. it happens every time.
p.s. i think you should focus your attention on dogs, they love ugly people(you) no matter what.
You don't deserve him back you nimcapoot!
You just tell him the truth. There's nothing wrong with telling the truth, and everything good comes out from truth
the same way you got him twice before. hope i helped.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to get your ex back?
So my boyfriend of 7 and a half months just broke up with me.
BUT he texts me like nothing has happened...like ';Hey whats up?!';
but i haven't answered
i really do want him back
i am seeing him soon and i want him to want me back
what should i do?
say hi...dont say hi, dress hot or act sad?
help!How to get your ex back?
Act impartial. Don't let him know you are sad, and don't act desperate by dressing ';hot'; because that won't win him back.
Depending on why he broke up with you, I don't see why you should even want to take him back. If he was stupid enough to dump you, is he worth your time? Worth giving a second chance?
If I were you, I would act like it didn't even phase me. He may see it as a challenge, and if he ends up wanting to take you back, then it's up to you if you think he'll be more committed next time. He might be toying with your emotions, though, so be careful. Could also just want to be friends, so again, don't try to make him think you want him, because it could just push him farther away.How to get your ex back?
Honestly, he broke it off with you because there was something not right about your relationship. He is probably txtg you because he misses the nookie. Is that the kind of guy you really want to be with? One that onlly wants that from you and nothing else? I know it is hard, trust me! You are both still a little fresh off the break up, so give yourselves time apart, and then in a few weeks/ months if he contacts you and you still want to see him, see him. Then, you can dress hot! Think with your head right now, not your heart. Good luck.
Hey girlie, here is what you do. dress like you are on the cat walk, smile like you won the lottery, do not leave that house until you look fab. word on the street travels real quick.when he hears you are happy without him ,he will wonder why? he thinks you should be in bed crying over him, it will drive him mad to know what or who is keeping you happy. trust me here, if he thinks someone else is treading in his turf he will do anything to get you back. when you meet no boo hoo, no declaring undying love for him. if he wants you make him work for it, if he dont what have you got to loose. give him a run for his money and remember yourself here, all we have is our dignity dont loose it for someone who might not be worth it. good luck
It depends why u two broke up. Just talk it over, see what u two can do to improve things next time, and make a final decision... If he doesn't want u back, at least stay friends because u never know if he's gonna' change his mind one day, but be on the look out for more boys at the same time just in case he never comes back. Don't sit in one place while staying single and wish. Don't do that...
Just Be like Oh hey you Nothing much just living life to the fullest and having fun
to let him know you can do it without him
and keep talking to him and build your relationship
and take it from there if you want him back
i found it hard to talk to my ex again - i bought this book a few weeks ago: http://www.my-linker.com/hop/breakuppeb
and it helped me start talking to him again. things are going ok... i'm still using the advice to work out how to eventually get back to a relationship.
It might help you too.
depends on why you broke up. Did something happen? or did feelings start to change. you have to figure this stuff out to know where to go from here. is it really best to get back with him? If so, just be honest with him.
answer him back... just be like ';hey nothing much'; but dnt ask.. hbu? just let him ask the questions.. if he has something to talk about he'll tell u.. and that way u'll let him know that ur not dying to reply back by sayin omg hey wats up how are u? u know ? just be reserved.. let him ask u stuff dnt ask him anything.
DO NOT take him back in! He's a douchebag! Why would you want the opposite of Prince Charming? Clearly, he is the opposite of that.
dress sexy and when hes not lookin hint it u want him back by feelin on him
Hey
Winning back your ex boyfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't get your goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.For a lot more tips that can help you to get your ex boyfriend back and to save your relationship check this useful and helpful blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/category/g鈥?/a>
Hope it helps.
BUT he texts me like nothing has happened...like ';Hey whats up?!';
but i haven't answered
i really do want him back
i am seeing him soon and i want him to want me back
what should i do?
say hi...dont say hi, dress hot or act sad?
help!How to get your ex back?
Act impartial. Don't let him know you are sad, and don't act desperate by dressing ';hot'; because that won't win him back.
Depending on why he broke up with you, I don't see why you should even want to take him back. If he was stupid enough to dump you, is he worth your time? Worth giving a second chance?
If I were you, I would act like it didn't even phase me. He may see it as a challenge, and if he ends up wanting to take you back, then it's up to you if you think he'll be more committed next time. He might be toying with your emotions, though, so be careful. Could also just want to be friends, so again, don't try to make him think you want him, because it could just push him farther away.How to get your ex back?
Honestly, he broke it off with you because there was something not right about your relationship. He is probably txtg you because he misses the nookie. Is that the kind of guy you really want to be with? One that onlly wants that from you and nothing else? I know it is hard, trust me! You are both still a little fresh off the break up, so give yourselves time apart, and then in a few weeks/ months if he contacts you and you still want to see him, see him. Then, you can dress hot! Think with your head right now, not your heart. Good luck.
Hey girlie, here is what you do. dress like you are on the cat walk, smile like you won the lottery, do not leave that house until you look fab. word on the street travels real quick.when he hears you are happy without him ,he will wonder why? he thinks you should be in bed crying over him, it will drive him mad to know what or who is keeping you happy. trust me here, if he thinks someone else is treading in his turf he will do anything to get you back. when you meet no boo hoo, no declaring undying love for him. if he wants you make him work for it, if he dont what have you got to loose. give him a run for his money and remember yourself here, all we have is our dignity dont loose it for someone who might not be worth it. good luck
It depends why u two broke up. Just talk it over, see what u two can do to improve things next time, and make a final decision... If he doesn't want u back, at least stay friends because u never know if he's gonna' change his mind one day, but be on the look out for more boys at the same time just in case he never comes back. Don't sit in one place while staying single and wish. Don't do that...
Just Be like Oh hey you Nothing much just living life to the fullest and having fun
to let him know you can do it without him
and keep talking to him and build your relationship
and take it from there if you want him back
i found it hard to talk to my ex again - i bought this book a few weeks ago: http://www.my-linker.com/hop/breakuppeb
and it helped me start talking to him again. things are going ok... i'm still using the advice to work out how to eventually get back to a relationship.
It might help you too.
depends on why you broke up. Did something happen? or did feelings start to change. you have to figure this stuff out to know where to go from here. is it really best to get back with him? If so, just be honest with him.
answer him back... just be like ';hey nothing much'; but dnt ask.. hbu? just let him ask the questions.. if he has something to talk about he'll tell u.. and that way u'll let him know that ur not dying to reply back by sayin omg hey wats up how are u? u know ? just be reserved.. let him ask u stuff dnt ask him anything.
DO NOT take him back in! He's a douchebag! Why would you want the opposite of Prince Charming? Clearly, he is the opposite of that.
dress sexy and when hes not lookin hint it u want him back by feelin on him
Hey
Winning back your ex boyfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't get your goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.For a lot more tips that can help you to get your ex boyfriend back and to save your relationship check this useful and helpful blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/category/g鈥?/a>
Hope it helps.
Ex-boyfriend coming back from trip. Should I act casual or ignore him?
Please give me answers that are sincere; I really need them. Thank you:
My bf and I broke up a month ago before he left out of the country for work. We were on good terms, but I wanted to get back together and he didn't. It was so hard on me when we broke up, but I understand that people need space to grow as individuals (and we were in a really intense relationship with no space and a lot of arguing). I miss him so much, and still want him back. I'm willing to work on the relationship and give it another shot, but I don't want him to think that we'd be going back into a relationship with no space. I gave him the whole month to himself (and we e-mailed each other twice, with friendly hellos).
My question is for the guys: If you were to see your ex-girlfriend again, would her ignoring you (and acting like she moved on) make you desire her? Or would her acting sweet, nice, and ';hey, how are you doing? I miss you?'; make you want her? Should I act like the same old me (when we were dating) or someone new and fun? Please remember: his whole issue was the fact that he didn't have any space in our relationship.
Thank you for your answers!Ex-boyfriend coming back from trip. Should I act casual or ignore him?
Obviously, I'm not a guy, but you mentioned you've emailed each other w/friendly hellos. Why don't you play it by ear when you see one another again. Of course keep it on the friendly side, but then too, you ARE the same YOU. So naturally YOU are going to ';show thru'; just by your own personality traits. You stated the ONLY thing was ';space'; issues, so of course you still do have feelings for him, that would be natural. They WILL show thru just by your ';body language'; %26amp; it no doubt wouldn't hurt to give him a hug when you see him. After all, he has to still have feelings too, %26amp; hugs are a kind of ';normal'; way to greet an ';old'; friend...best to you...:)Ex-boyfriend coming back from trip. Should I act casual or ignore him?
That's the number one tragedy why men brake up. That's who you are if it didn't work out before why do you want to hurt yourself even more. The sooner you start to heel the better. He is doing the same thing and will not get back into a relationship with you regardless. The best thing to do is stay friends for many years to come accept it.
You've gotta do what you think is best. You know your situation better than we could ever know.
But do you realize that you've posted this question in the ';Marriage and Divorce'; category? Your question has nothing to do with marriage or divorce.
be like a friend but limit yourself so you dont off as desperate..
dont be a bother or a stalker and just be casual.. you do have a life so live it and if it's meant to be it will be..
Why would you ';act'; at all? Don't seek him out, don't call him, don't text or email him. If he contacts you, be yourself. Being a phoney can only make matters worse.
Don't do anything. Unless he asks to meet up with you, leave him to his space. If you run into him in the store, just a friendly hello, none of the I want you, I miss you, etc.
Great.
Anther ';game playing'; female.
Wonderful.
Stop playing games. I would say 'grow up' but that doesn't seem likely...so do what you do, and 'ignore' him....
He's your ex. What makes you think you're even going to see him?
Don't ';act'; anything. Be YOURSELF.
Don't play stupid games. Be yourself.
Take a seat.
get in the kitchen and prepare him lunch or he will backhand you.
I would Ignore him , or just say hi and move along
Send him a ';welcome back email'; and keep it short and sweet. Let him know how you feel. Guys don't want to guess how a woman feels.....They would rather be presented the situation and make a decision based on that. Let him know that you still love him, but want him to be happy regardless of who he's with. Tell him to take as much time as he needs and if he still wants to be with you to get ahold of you.
Then wait.
I would prefer that we are still friends and you not ignore me. There is nothing wrong with moving on but still being able to say, ';hey!! how have you been?!?!!?';
As far as desire her?? The best bet you be to walk up to me with the same hey how are you thing but give me a hug and whisper in my ear how your aching to suck my cock. That would probably do it.
Another thing, how do you know he doesn't still want you? Maybe he broke it off with you because he was leaving town for a while and didn't want you to have to wait around for him to come back.
I think the best advice I can give you here is to just leave him alone. If he wants or thinks about you at all, he knows where to find you. No matter what you do, give or how you act, you can't force someone to love you. If you do contact him in any way, your desperation will show. I'm a woman and I want to run from you just reading what you wrote, so I know he'll hear it in your voice just over the phone.
The man has already made it clear that he's not interested in pursuing a relationship with you! It's time to grow up and learn another life lesson here. It's called ';Letting Go.';
My bf and I broke up a month ago before he left out of the country for work. We were on good terms, but I wanted to get back together and he didn't. It was so hard on me when we broke up, but I understand that people need space to grow as individuals (and we were in a really intense relationship with no space and a lot of arguing). I miss him so much, and still want him back. I'm willing to work on the relationship and give it another shot, but I don't want him to think that we'd be going back into a relationship with no space. I gave him the whole month to himself (and we e-mailed each other twice, with friendly hellos).
My question is for the guys: If you were to see your ex-girlfriend again, would her ignoring you (and acting like she moved on) make you desire her? Or would her acting sweet, nice, and ';hey, how are you doing? I miss you?'; make you want her? Should I act like the same old me (when we were dating) or someone new and fun? Please remember: his whole issue was the fact that he didn't have any space in our relationship.
Thank you for your answers!Ex-boyfriend coming back from trip. Should I act casual or ignore him?
Obviously, I'm not a guy, but you mentioned you've emailed each other w/friendly hellos. Why don't you play it by ear when you see one another again. Of course keep it on the friendly side, but then too, you ARE the same YOU. So naturally YOU are going to ';show thru'; just by your own personality traits. You stated the ONLY thing was ';space'; issues, so of course you still do have feelings for him, that would be natural. They WILL show thru just by your ';body language'; %26amp; it no doubt wouldn't hurt to give him a hug when you see him. After all, he has to still have feelings too, %26amp; hugs are a kind of ';normal'; way to greet an ';old'; friend...best to you...:)Ex-boyfriend coming back from trip. Should I act casual or ignore him?
That's the number one tragedy why men brake up. That's who you are if it didn't work out before why do you want to hurt yourself even more. The sooner you start to heel the better. He is doing the same thing and will not get back into a relationship with you regardless. The best thing to do is stay friends for many years to come accept it.
You've gotta do what you think is best. You know your situation better than we could ever know.
But do you realize that you've posted this question in the ';Marriage and Divorce'; category? Your question has nothing to do with marriage or divorce.
be like a friend but limit yourself so you dont off as desperate..
dont be a bother or a stalker and just be casual.. you do have a life so live it and if it's meant to be it will be..
Why would you ';act'; at all? Don't seek him out, don't call him, don't text or email him. If he contacts you, be yourself. Being a phoney can only make matters worse.
Don't do anything. Unless he asks to meet up with you, leave him to his space. If you run into him in the store, just a friendly hello, none of the I want you, I miss you, etc.
Great.
Anther ';game playing'; female.
Wonderful.
Stop playing games. I would say 'grow up' but that doesn't seem likely...so do what you do, and 'ignore' him....
He's your ex. What makes you think you're even going to see him?
Don't ';act'; anything. Be YOURSELF.
Don't play stupid games. Be yourself.
Take a seat.
get in the kitchen and prepare him lunch or he will backhand you.
I would Ignore him , or just say hi and move along
Send him a ';welcome back email'; and keep it short and sweet. Let him know how you feel. Guys don't want to guess how a woman feels.....They would rather be presented the situation and make a decision based on that. Let him know that you still love him, but want him to be happy regardless of who he's with. Tell him to take as much time as he needs and if he still wants to be with you to get ahold of you.
Then wait.
I would prefer that we are still friends and you not ignore me. There is nothing wrong with moving on but still being able to say, ';hey!! how have you been?!?!!?';
As far as desire her?? The best bet you be to walk up to me with the same hey how are you thing but give me a hug and whisper in my ear how your aching to suck my cock. That would probably do it.
Another thing, how do you know he doesn't still want you? Maybe he broke it off with you because he was leaving town for a while and didn't want you to have to wait around for him to come back.
I think the best advice I can give you here is to just leave him alone. If he wants or thinks about you at all, he knows where to find you. No matter what you do, give or how you act, you can't force someone to love you. If you do contact him in any way, your desperation will show. I'm a woman and I want to run from you just reading what you wrote, so I know he'll hear it in your voice just over the phone.
The man has already made it clear that he's not interested in pursuing a relationship with you! It's time to grow up and learn another life lesson here. It's called ';Letting Go.';
Is keeping email contact with your ex-boyfriend after 8 yrs of marriage ok?
Hi I have been married for 8 years. Last year I got in touch with my ex-boyfriend, via email. We had not been in touch for a long time and there were issues that were not settled when we split. We chatted a couple of times and sorted out the misunderstanding. I have told my hubby about whole thing.
I want to know if it is okay to be in touch with your ex. My hubby does not say much but may be he is feeling unsecured. My ex is married too and both of us chat with each other on general issues. Like how to tackle difficult situations with the kids and general things. I have no feelings for him - he is just a casual friend. But sometimes I start feeling guilty. esp when my hubby n myself get into arguments - my hubby passes remarks that indicate that he thinks that I have something going on behind his back. I swear that I have no such thing going on. I also know that I should have no guilt in my mind if I am not doing anything wrong. But I am confused! Please advise and help!Is keeping email contact with your ex-boyfriend after 8 yrs of marriage ok?
For me I think it鈥檚 not a good idea sweetie. I know it鈥檚 not a big deal if you think about it for a second but still sound like a bad idea in a way. I hope you understand what I mean. God bless.Is keeping email contact with your ex-boyfriend after 8 yrs of marriage ok?
Yeah, I'm tending to agree with the consensus here. Would you mind if your mate got in touch with and maintained relationships with his ex-girlfriends. Hmmm... I'm seeing this now. See my questions. It's not cool. I have two kids with special needs though and try to maintain for them.
Firstly, I congratulate because you got your best and understanding friend back. As far as you are comfortable with your hubby there is nothing wrong in conversating with ur boy friend. As he is also married both of them would be in your limits while chatting. Especially, do not get into the personal affair's of his nor yours. I hope the advice would help you to some extent.
But you are giving the appearance that are. Would you really trust him if he was onlinewith some exgf of his? Im guessing no. You can;t change the past. Any guilt you feel about what happened with this guy needs to stay in that past. Along with this ex. Is he really more important?
I say it is okay as long as the intention is purely for friendship. However, your former boyfriend might want more even when you don't, or, as I learned, the desires of your spouse should override that of your former boyfriend or even you on this issue.
not at all advisable when u don't have any feeelings, its not correct,
u r disturbing ur present family, further continued u will ruin it.
better not to be attached online, when not interested.
he can better solve his problems
u will be in soup when he advances further, he may or he may not but still u r only at risk
just stop it. u are showing signs of being foolish. stop all contact at once.
as long as it's going smoothly it is OK. but see that old affairs should not be repeated and may create problems.
Well I say no.Unless it's OK for your hubby to be talking to all his exes.
I guess it is ok as long as you're keeping it as friends. we all need to spice up our lives every once in a while.. but dont go so far!!!
yes, stop it and grow up. Theres no need to do it. Dont risk ruining what you've got
Nope,
Cut all ties. How would you feel if he kept in contact with an ex?
I think you need to focus your intimacy on your husband not some former x. I would keep past lovers out of your future life. who knows what kind of pain or resentment this is sticking into your husband. I'd tell my husband i said goodby to the x.. and you have no intention of talking to him again.
your hubby is where your loyalty and devotion should lie.. he should be your best friend.. the one you turn to when your down or in trouble. not some x.
i think you need to explain to your hubby what he means to you..
good luck.
oh and one last thing.. it's not reality that is what matters.. it's the perception your husband has.. THAT is the damage. so reality dosnt matter. Damage is just as severe if your husband percieves it as real.. regardless what the reality is.
how would you feel if he went running to some woman from his past.. everytime you two had an argument.. tell u what.. one time he might not come back. so choose.. your hubby or some x.. (gee i thought u already chose when you said ido?)
good luck
It may not be a total trust issue as in you having something with your ex, but rather a bit of natural jealousy that you share certain conversations about general things with the ex, that your hubby may feel left out of, remember, even though you are no longer together, there is always a bond there that will be different than the bond you have with your husband and it may naturally bother him. Maybe you should be talking with your husband about these things and just keeping in touch with the ex every six months or year to see whats new, not the detailed conversations.
I want to know if it is okay to be in touch with your ex. My hubby does not say much but may be he is feeling unsecured. My ex is married too and both of us chat with each other on general issues. Like how to tackle difficult situations with the kids and general things. I have no feelings for him - he is just a casual friend. But sometimes I start feeling guilty. esp when my hubby n myself get into arguments - my hubby passes remarks that indicate that he thinks that I have something going on behind his back. I swear that I have no such thing going on. I also know that I should have no guilt in my mind if I am not doing anything wrong. But I am confused! Please advise and help!Is keeping email contact with your ex-boyfriend after 8 yrs of marriage ok?
For me I think it鈥檚 not a good idea sweetie. I know it鈥檚 not a big deal if you think about it for a second but still sound like a bad idea in a way. I hope you understand what I mean. God bless.Is keeping email contact with your ex-boyfriend after 8 yrs of marriage ok?
Yeah, I'm tending to agree with the consensus here. Would you mind if your mate got in touch with and maintained relationships with his ex-girlfriends. Hmmm... I'm seeing this now. See my questions. It's not cool. I have two kids with special needs though and try to maintain for them.
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Firstly, I congratulate because you got your best and understanding friend back. As far as you are comfortable with your hubby there is nothing wrong in conversating with ur boy friend. As he is also married both of them would be in your limits while chatting. Especially, do not get into the personal affair's of his nor yours. I hope the advice would help you to some extent.
But you are giving the appearance that are. Would you really trust him if he was onlinewith some exgf of his? Im guessing no. You can;t change the past. Any guilt you feel about what happened with this guy needs to stay in that past. Along with this ex. Is he really more important?
I say it is okay as long as the intention is purely for friendship. However, your former boyfriend might want more even when you don't, or, as I learned, the desires of your spouse should override that of your former boyfriend or even you on this issue.
not at all advisable when u don't have any feeelings, its not correct,
u r disturbing ur present family, further continued u will ruin it.
better not to be attached online, when not interested.
he can better solve his problems
u will be in soup when he advances further, he may or he may not but still u r only at risk
just stop it. u are showing signs of being foolish. stop all contact at once.
as long as it's going smoothly it is OK. but see that old affairs should not be repeated and may create problems.
Well I say no.Unless it's OK for your hubby to be talking to all his exes.
I guess it is ok as long as you're keeping it as friends. we all need to spice up our lives every once in a while.. but dont go so far!!!
yes, stop it and grow up. Theres no need to do it. Dont risk ruining what you've got
Nope,
Cut all ties. How would you feel if he kept in contact with an ex?
I think you need to focus your intimacy on your husband not some former x. I would keep past lovers out of your future life. who knows what kind of pain or resentment this is sticking into your husband. I'd tell my husband i said goodby to the x.. and you have no intention of talking to him again.
your hubby is where your loyalty and devotion should lie.. he should be your best friend.. the one you turn to when your down or in trouble. not some x.
i think you need to explain to your hubby what he means to you..
good luck.
oh and one last thing.. it's not reality that is what matters.. it's the perception your husband has.. THAT is the damage. so reality dosnt matter. Damage is just as severe if your husband percieves it as real.. regardless what the reality is.
how would you feel if he went running to some woman from his past.. everytime you two had an argument.. tell u what.. one time he might not come back. so choose.. your hubby or some x.. (gee i thought u already chose when you said ido?)
good luck
It may not be a total trust issue as in you having something with your ex, but rather a bit of natural jealousy that you share certain conversations about general things with the ex, that your hubby may feel left out of, remember, even though you are no longer together, there is always a bond there that will be different than the bond you have with your husband and it may naturally bother him. Maybe you should be talking with your husband about these things and just keeping in touch with the ex every six months or year to see whats new, not the detailed conversations.
Is it ok to write your ex boyfriend a letter about how much he meant to you and why you don't want to lose him?
I want to send my ex boyfriend ( we broke up 2 saturdays ago) a letter. We were supposed to return each others items today, but I was on a vacation, and I just came back a few hours ago. Since I am so tired, I am gonna call my ex tomorrow so he can come over and give me my things, and vise versa. The thing is that I really don't want to lose him. I want to get back together with him. We did so much together, even our families and friends thought we would be the couple to last. We even did so much for each other, that it was crazy. I know he still cares about me because he told me he was proud of me on Wednesday ( I didn't hear why though, he was somewhere with noise.. I heard on the phone)
So would it be ok to write him a letter telling him how much he meant to me and why I do not want to lose him? What should I include in the letter? Thank you for all your ideas and suggestions.
BQ- what are you doing for Easter?Is it ok to write your ex boyfriend a letter about how much he meant to you and why you don't want to lose him?
If you want to continue the relationship, just tell him to his face. If he doesn't feel the same way, then it's time to grieve for the relationship for a while and then move on.Is it ok to write your ex boyfriend a letter about how much he meant to you and why you don't want to lose him?
If you're not sure about your feelings, just talk to him in person. Be honest with him and hope that he's willing to listen to you. Even if you guys don't reconcile, atleast you were able to let him know and make sure that things had to be this way. No regrets! :)
if you broke up with him it would be nice to write a letter to him. however, if he broke up with you don't write him a letter. you would sound desperate.
I would not do it because it should be him to want you. Especially if he dumped you! I really would not do it. Just leave it alone and maybe he will come around
No it makes you sound like a desperate clingy loser.
Like seriously don't!
I wouldn't do it...I think it makes you sound desperate.myspace icons pale skin
So would it be ok to write him a letter telling him how much he meant to me and why I do not want to lose him? What should I include in the letter? Thank you for all your ideas and suggestions.
BQ- what are you doing for Easter?Is it ok to write your ex boyfriend a letter about how much he meant to you and why you don't want to lose him?
If you want to continue the relationship, just tell him to his face. If he doesn't feel the same way, then it's time to grieve for the relationship for a while and then move on.Is it ok to write your ex boyfriend a letter about how much he meant to you and why you don't want to lose him?
If you're not sure about your feelings, just talk to him in person. Be honest with him and hope that he's willing to listen to you. Even if you guys don't reconcile, atleast you were able to let him know and make sure that things had to be this way. No regrets! :)
if you broke up with him it would be nice to write a letter to him. however, if he broke up with you don't write him a letter. you would sound desperate.
I would not do it because it should be him to want you. Especially if he dumped you! I really would not do it. Just leave it alone and maybe he will come around
No it makes you sound like a desperate clingy loser.
Like seriously don't!
I wouldn't do it...I think it makes you sound desperate.
How would you react if, your ex boyfriend.........?
How would you react if, your ex boyfriend sent you a picture of his dick and it was way bigger than the last time you seen it, like 6 inches longer? Yeah, he used be small, but that isn’t the reason why we brooked up. I still loved him anyways. I still have feelings for him even now, but I wouldn’t call it love anymore. We brooked up because I felt that he was to busy for me like with work, school and etc, they where good reasons, but I was lonely etc. So anyways back to the topic. He was getting all mad because I was asking questions like, was it his because I was shocked. I apologized to him and relaxed him to make him feel better. Then he apologized to me for over acting then he asked me out on a date, again. My responds was, “ I’m sorry to say this, but to often you seem not able to make it. You know how it goes.” His responds to that was, “Well, you any better ideas?” I told him what I wanted him to do. He said, “I think, I can.”
I still feel bad about what had happen that night because he rarely gets mad at me, but he has lately, but those where over jealousy. The truth is I always wanted him, but I feel if you want me come and get me especially if they already had me once, but I want him even more now if you know what I mean, but I don’t want him to know that. I don’t want him to think I’m only after because his you know what because his bigger way bigger.
The truth is, I just want a boyfriend who likes me, who spends time with me, respects me, loyalty, attractive and loves to make love. I also want a boyfriend so I’ll have a date to the prom and I’m saying anybody can take this place that have those quality, even my ex the one I’m talked about ealier, but I don’t need a boyfriend. I’m fine with being single with my friends, but I still desire one.
So just to make it easier on you to refresh your memory the questions are; 1) How would you react if, your ex boyfriend sent you a picture of his dick and it was way bigger than the last time you seen it, like 6 inches longer? 2) I want to thank him for sending that picture, but not in those exact words or I don’t have to use words at all? 3) How soon should I contact him back, two days later, 3 days?How would you react if, your ex boyfriend.........?
That's a long winded question.
1) How would you react if, your ex boyfriend sent you a picture of his dick and it was way bigger than the last time you seen it, like 6 inches longer?
-Firstly, 6 inches longer is ridiculous, 6 inches is above average, so did he not have anything before? Anyway, it would creep me out if somebody did that, I mean, who does that? It's a very weird thing to do if you ask me.
2) I want to thank him for sending that picture, but not in those exact words or I don’t have to use words at all?
-You don't need to thank him for sending you a picture of his dick.
3) How soon should I contact him back, two days later, 3 days?
-There shouldn't really be a certain amount of time, just whenever you want to, whenever you're ready.How would you react if, your ex boyfriend.........?
contact him now. and tell him you want him back. and tell him that he needs to come over now and nail you. and if hes too busy, dump his ***
1/ would be interested how it got bigger
2 just say it looks pretty
3 1 day
The prom? Are you kidding? Are you in high school?
it is break -present, broke-past, broken - participle past
you broke up you didn't brooked up sweetie
dang your boyfriends a perv!
How do you know it was HIS dick?
There is no such thing as a growth pill for a penis. It's a legend.
i would ignore it and go on with my life.
broke not brooked.
How do you know it was his and not some other guy's?
girl bye wit all that
your to hot to be in high school
go sit on some ice
i would be creeped out!
say hey thanks for that pic
lol
idk
and hmm 2 days
i think you should ask him how he gotten bigger
if i were a girl i would say, wow.. can i suck that?
send him apicture of you --------then send it to me..lol...honestly i d k
Theres no way his dick grew 6 inches, it's imposible unless you saw it soft and the pic was hard. Probably just a joke, don't talk to him, just send him a pic of your ****.
I still feel bad about what had happen that night because he rarely gets mad at me, but he has lately, but those where over jealousy. The truth is I always wanted him, but I feel if you want me come and get me especially if they already had me once, but I want him even more now if you know what I mean, but I don’t want him to know that. I don’t want him to think I’m only after because his you know what because his bigger way bigger.
The truth is, I just want a boyfriend who likes me, who spends time with me, respects me, loyalty, attractive and loves to make love. I also want a boyfriend so I’ll have a date to the prom and I’m saying anybody can take this place that have those quality, even my ex the one I’m talked about ealier, but I don’t need a boyfriend. I’m fine with being single with my friends, but I still desire one.
So just to make it easier on you to refresh your memory the questions are; 1) How would you react if, your ex boyfriend sent you a picture of his dick and it was way bigger than the last time you seen it, like 6 inches longer? 2) I want to thank him for sending that picture, but not in those exact words or I don’t have to use words at all? 3) How soon should I contact him back, two days later, 3 days?How would you react if, your ex boyfriend.........?
That's a long winded question.
1) How would you react if, your ex boyfriend sent you a picture of his dick and it was way bigger than the last time you seen it, like 6 inches longer?
-Firstly, 6 inches longer is ridiculous, 6 inches is above average, so did he not have anything before? Anyway, it would creep me out if somebody did that, I mean, who does that? It's a very weird thing to do if you ask me.
2) I want to thank him for sending that picture, but not in those exact words or I don’t have to use words at all?
-You don't need to thank him for sending you a picture of his dick.
3) How soon should I contact him back, two days later, 3 days?
-There shouldn't really be a certain amount of time, just whenever you want to, whenever you're ready.How would you react if, your ex boyfriend.........?
contact him now. and tell him you want him back. and tell him that he needs to come over now and nail you. and if hes too busy, dump his ***
1/ would be interested how it got bigger
2 just say it looks pretty
3 1 day
The prom? Are you kidding? Are you in high school?
it is break -present, broke-past, broken - participle past
you broke up you didn't brooked up sweetie
dang your boyfriends a perv!
How do you know it was HIS dick?
There is no such thing as a growth pill for a penis. It's a legend.
i would ignore it and go on with my life.
broke not brooked.
How do you know it was his and not some other guy's?
girl bye wit all that
your to hot to be in high school
go sit on some ice
i would be creeped out!
say hey thanks for that pic
lol
idk
and hmm 2 days
i think you should ask him how he gotten bigger
if i were a girl i would say, wow.. can i suck that?
send him apicture of you --------then send it to me..lol...honestly i d k
Theres no way his dick grew 6 inches, it's imposible unless you saw it soft and the pic was hard. Probably just a joke, don't talk to him, just send him a pic of your ****.
How do you move on from your ex-boyfriend?
so i've been trying to get back with my ex for 6 months now. but all he does is play games with me. i want to move on and i know sooner or later i have to, but theres just one problem i don't know how.he makes me so sad, he treats me bad and doesn't know how to talk to me, he's rude as well everytime im about to give up he does the littlest things to make me crawl back to him. i care for him alot. and i have too much love for him by the way he treats me. help? i need all the advice i can get :/How do you move on from your ex-boyfriend?
in a long time
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e-qpGKi2B鈥?/a>How do you move on from your ex-boyfriend?
I was in the exact situation.
I just ignored him even though it hurt.
He didn't treat me right and was rude (acted like I was no one in front of his friends) Then I thought I don't need this. I deserve way better.
I did care for him and in a way I loved him.
But over time I forgot him.
Now he's the one trying to get with me, saying he's changed and tries to apologize for hurting me but...
I've just walked away.
Cause I've got someone better.
=]
it's hard i know i was going through the same thing and thought i was never going to get over him but 1 day i told 1 of my friends about it and she introduced me to this guy and he was really sweet so i guess what im trying to say is your just gonna have to wait a little bit till the next amazing guy comes in your life and trust me u'll know when he comes good luck
Well the same thing happened to me, and what you do is try to stop talking to him, making eye contact, and when he talks to you, usually it's something mean right? ignore it. I know everyone probably says ';Find someone else'; well i thought, how can you find someone els when you already found someone. well it's easier than you thinkk, just give it a try.
Hope it helped :)
There's not much you can do. It'll just go away. You can keep yourself busy with friends and whatnot, but at the end of the day, you'll be thinking about him. I used to ask these same questions babygirl, time will heal.
you must be more aware of how precious you are and do not let him to hurt you.
you cannot change the people but you can go away from those that hurt you.
you know. hes a jerk. how can someone treat another person like that. your too good for him. try to hang and talk with other guys and just try to get over him
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Just walk away. You can't be in contact with him. Done call him don't answers his calls don';t text him don't read his. Just push him away. Focus on finding someone that you deserve and that deserves you.
some women dont realise but they are attracted to jerks who treat them like shyte.
im sure theres decent guys who would love and honour you but you dont want them you want the bad guy.
did u dump him or he did? if u did then getting back not gana work.
check out mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
never make somone a priority when all you are to them is an option
ex'es are ex'es for a reason
sorry if you dont want to hear this but put on your big girl panties and get on with your life.
I don't know but if i was gay i'd tell you.
This is not a guy who loves you, he is using you, and he will keep on doing it as long as you are willing to put up with it. A person who loves you doesn't treat you like crap. What things does he do to make you crawl back to him? By the way, you should never crawl back to anyone, that's just terrible to even say that about yourself! From what I can see, you were and probably still are in a verbally abusive relationship, and the only one who can make you stop this is you. It sounds like you should talk to someone about this, because you need to get your self esteem back up. You deserve a happy life, and this guy is never going to give you that. I also think you're really afraid to be alone, because this guy has probably let you know that you are nothing without him. Believe me you're better off without him. Take care of yourself first, and eventually the right person will come along who will treat you right.
It is hard to move on from relationships at time, especially when you really have feelings for that person. I was in a relationship with someone that talked to me badly, very disrespectful, and so forth but there came a time where I just basically got fed up with the disrespect, I just let go. It was hard though, but I knew that was the right thing to do. You deserve better. He is not the only man in this whole entire world!! Even though it seems like that way. With my ex, I kept holding on and on and I thought he was just the only man in this world but then someone else came along and swept me off my feet and I am happy!! Now, I would not or could not see myself going back to my ex.
this happened to my friend. i would HIGHLY HIGHLY HIIIIIGHLY reccamend that you leave that jerk! my friend constantly was crying all the time because of the pain he cost her every day. he kept leading her on like they were going to get back together but he never did! all it caused was her depression which got really bad, and in the end, it wasn't worth it. she lost a lot of her friends because of her sadness and she lost him on top of that. don't do this to yourself! 6 months is way to long, i don't think its going anywhere. get away from him and don't contact him anymore. if he comes after you, show him you've moved on and you don't need him. because you DON'T!!!
you have to give up on him.
i was in a situation for a *long* time that sounds pretty much exactly like yours.
i finally, after over a year, almost got back together with him, and it was just another one of his games. he got with another girl two days after he told me he loved me. it hurt like you would never believe. /:
i'm finally over him, and it's been two years now. you have to stop talking to him for a while, just cut him out of your life. delete his phone number; everything that reminds you of him needs to go in a box somewhere you won't see it. don't listen to you guys' song if you have one. just get him out of your head.
it's gonna be hard but before long you'll be finished being his puppet.
good luck, and i wish you the best.
in a long time
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e-qpGKi2B鈥?/a>How do you move on from your ex-boyfriend?
I was in the exact situation.
I just ignored him even though it hurt.
He didn't treat me right and was rude (acted like I was no one in front of his friends) Then I thought I don't need this. I deserve way better.
I did care for him and in a way I loved him.
But over time I forgot him.
Now he's the one trying to get with me, saying he's changed and tries to apologize for hurting me but...
I've just walked away.
Cause I've got someone better.
=]
it's hard i know i was going through the same thing and thought i was never going to get over him but 1 day i told 1 of my friends about it and she introduced me to this guy and he was really sweet so i guess what im trying to say is your just gonna have to wait a little bit till the next amazing guy comes in your life and trust me u'll know when he comes good luck
Well the same thing happened to me, and what you do is try to stop talking to him, making eye contact, and when he talks to you, usually it's something mean right? ignore it. I know everyone probably says ';Find someone else'; well i thought, how can you find someone els when you already found someone. well it's easier than you thinkk, just give it a try.
Hope it helped :)
There's not much you can do. It'll just go away. You can keep yourself busy with friends and whatnot, but at the end of the day, you'll be thinking about him. I used to ask these same questions babygirl, time will heal.
you must be more aware of how precious you are and do not let him to hurt you.
you cannot change the people but you can go away from those that hurt you.
you know. hes a jerk. how can someone treat another person like that. your too good for him. try to hang and talk with other guys and just try to get over him
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Just walk away. You can't be in contact with him. Done call him don't answers his calls don';t text him don't read his. Just push him away. Focus on finding someone that you deserve and that deserves you.
some women dont realise but they are attracted to jerks who treat them like shyte.
im sure theres decent guys who would love and honour you but you dont want them you want the bad guy.
did u dump him or he did? if u did then getting back not gana work.
check out mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
never make somone a priority when all you are to them is an option
ex'es are ex'es for a reason
sorry if you dont want to hear this but put on your big girl panties and get on with your life.
I don't know but if i was gay i'd tell you.
This is not a guy who loves you, he is using you, and he will keep on doing it as long as you are willing to put up with it. A person who loves you doesn't treat you like crap. What things does he do to make you crawl back to him? By the way, you should never crawl back to anyone, that's just terrible to even say that about yourself! From what I can see, you were and probably still are in a verbally abusive relationship, and the only one who can make you stop this is you. It sounds like you should talk to someone about this, because you need to get your self esteem back up. You deserve a happy life, and this guy is never going to give you that. I also think you're really afraid to be alone, because this guy has probably let you know that you are nothing without him. Believe me you're better off without him. Take care of yourself first, and eventually the right person will come along who will treat you right.
It is hard to move on from relationships at time, especially when you really have feelings for that person. I was in a relationship with someone that talked to me badly, very disrespectful, and so forth but there came a time where I just basically got fed up with the disrespect, I just let go. It was hard though, but I knew that was the right thing to do. You deserve better. He is not the only man in this whole entire world!! Even though it seems like that way. With my ex, I kept holding on and on and I thought he was just the only man in this world but then someone else came along and swept me off my feet and I am happy!! Now, I would not or could not see myself going back to my ex.
this happened to my friend. i would HIGHLY HIGHLY HIIIIIGHLY reccamend that you leave that jerk! my friend constantly was crying all the time because of the pain he cost her every day. he kept leading her on like they were going to get back together but he never did! all it caused was her depression which got really bad, and in the end, it wasn't worth it. she lost a lot of her friends because of her sadness and she lost him on top of that. don't do this to yourself! 6 months is way to long, i don't think its going anywhere. get away from him and don't contact him anymore. if he comes after you, show him you've moved on and you don't need him. because you DON'T!!!
you have to give up on him.
i was in a situation for a *long* time that sounds pretty much exactly like yours.
i finally, after over a year, almost got back together with him, and it was just another one of his games. he got with another girl two days after he told me he loved me. it hurt like you would never believe. /:
i'm finally over him, and it's been two years now. you have to stop talking to him for a while, just cut him out of your life. delete his phone number; everything that reminds you of him needs to go in a box somewhere you won't see it. don't listen to you guys' song if you have one. just get him out of your head.
it's gonna be hard but before long you'll be finished being his puppet.
good luck, and i wish you the best.
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