How do you win your ex boyfriend back?

Ok so me and my ex dated off an on for awhile. He went into the marines, and wrote me TONS of love letters which i never responded to. I tried calling after he graduated and a week later he apologized and said that he was upset that i never responded so he basically tried to ';punish'; me. I went through this huge confession that I still loved him and yada yada. Now that ive confessed he basically has been trying to piss me off by making me jealous. He tells me the marines have taught him not to ';feel';. and hes no longer jealous that I have a boyfriend. Obviously hes playing games with me because he was ';upset'; because I didnt write and now he doesnt feel anything? yeah right, then after I told him I was going to dinner with my boyfriend he says he rented a hotel room with a jacuzzi and is going there with his new gf, in which he texted me at midnight to tell me he had awesome sex. (which im sure hes lieing because who texts their xgf when their with their new gf to tell them they had sex? thats just disrepectful to you new gf. Tonight, after he claims that he'll probably ';forget'; about me at marine combat training, I told him to stop kidding, and that i really know he loves me. He told me I have a problem and that he was going out with his new gf, (no name given!) lol. So now, im hurt, and decide to tell him I was joking around and just wanted to make him THINK I liked him. He calls me and tells me to stop acting like a 3 yr old and getting pissy jealous and tells me hes going out on a date and hangs up. Im upset, and kind of want to win him back, if not, really HURT him. I know its stupid and im playing games, but talking to him doesnt work, I need to know how to manipulate him. any ideas? PLEASE NO SMART ALECK REMARKS! If he wants to play dirty, so will I. How do you win your ex boyfriend back?
The U.S.M.C (Uncle Sam's Misguided Children), (4 years), does not teach Marines to not feel.





Because you failed to not answer his letters, he has lost feelings for you.





Time to let him go and move on with life.